i hated my job that i only got by by seeing a certain guy there all the time. i broke up with my boyfriend for him. i thought we were together and he told me he loved me on numerous occasions and i thought we were a thing. we spent the last year flirting and the last week together nonstop. tonight i asked him to be with me on new years and he stood me up. he showed up at like 2 am saying that his family came in from out of town unexpextedly. when i got to his house he told me off saying that he never loved me, we were never together and that i should go home. he was saying i still loved my ex. he knows my ex is never home. he stays with another girl and he knows this. why would i want to stay with him if i loved my ex? now i feel like everything is a sham. i hate everything and i want to just give it all up. what do i do now? my work, my love. my living here was all based on him? i feel like dying...
2006-12-31 20:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not the end of the world. If he is treating u like this than either forget about him and move on or see if there was a misunderstanding U deserve better
2006-12-31 20:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was making a man your everything. God should be your everything and He is jealous when we don't. That's why this situation has presented itself to you. It is now time for you to live life the way it should be, for you and for Him. Get out of all that mess you are in and start over. Never make a man your whole existence, you lose yourself in the process. The next time you get a man still be yourself and he will appreciate you. And don't ever leave a good man for a piece of trash, it never works out. He probably figured that since you left you bf for him that you would do the same to him.
2007-01-01 04:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live.
you will get over it.
forget about him, he's nothing.
and he shouldn't mean anything to you.
slowly he'll disappear.
you'll prob feel depressed and down and stuff.
but it happens.
rest.
talk with your friends.
and you'll just slowly start to recover.
you can't do much right now except wait for it to be over.
cause it will.
just remember, live life.
be thankful for what you have.
yeah about your ex....
did you gave him up for the other guy because you felt that the other guy was giving you more attention? and your ex was just some last years news?
what would happen if you try to get him back.....
2007-01-01 04:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately you live and let live honey. Sometimes we girls get caught up in the fantasy. Sounds like this guy is a manipulating jerk. It's time to find someone that loves you the way you need to be loved.
2007-01-01 04:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by misticalmother 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya you are sucking a little - I am sorry to say this but he played a game with you, it sucks but don't let it discourage you. There is plenty of guys out there, everyone gets hurt, broken hearts and makes mistakes - It's life but you'll move on
2007-01-01 04:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to be single for a while instead of going from one guy to another. Get secure with yourself first, then a relationship can be successful.
2007-01-01 04:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know where you are but you should pack all your stuff and move to myrtle beach SC. There are lots of jobs there and its loads of fun you will be better off without a jerk like him.
2007-01-01 04:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tomorrow is a new beginning!
2007, a brand new year to begin your life.
Step back and look what you have ahead!
You have so much to look forward to!
Find your passion keep your openness and focus on your self belief!
Happy New Year! You have a chance to start again!
2007-01-01 04:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea what day it is today, sweetheart? It's NEW YEAR'S DAY, it's THE day for a clean slate! Use it to your advantage!
2007-01-01 04:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Detroit Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember, if it was meant to be, it would be.
New and IMPROVED loves will come and go, and you will find the guy thats right for you!
good luck hun.
2007-01-01 04:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋