I am 13,and I keep on thinking about my ex.And,I told my friends that I was so over him,but if I tell them I like him,they will get mad at me because I gone out with this guy soooo much.But,it seems like I cant stay away from this guy,I know this sounds corny,but I cant help it.I dont know if I like him or not,but,I just think about all the good times we had. And then,I think about all the bad fights.I dont know if he feels the same way or not.But,I am too scared to ask him.And,if we do start dating,I am afraid that I will lose my friends.What should I do?
2006-12-31 20:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wanna bet? I have 4 exs!
2006-12-31 20:19:47 · update #1
I sometimes think about my ex , too .
2006-12-31 20:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Miroku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay in school and focus on education not a boyfriend so deeply. Its cool to like someone but thats too much for your age to have control over your emotions when it comes to pup love. Your 13 yrs old when you grow up you will want a guy who treats you like a princess to a Queen (hopefully) so the fights are not a good sign at 13 move on even if its hard move on....
2006-12-31 20:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by gigahits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories, unlike people, never change. So it's easier for you to hold onto the memories that you have of him. However, the 'real him' didn't deserve you--or you would still be together. The best remedy, honestly, is to go be with friends or family; people who care about you, love you, and fill you with happiness rather than constant thoughts of your ex. You eventually will find yourself focusing on the positive, and moving on.
2016-03-29 02:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are just protecting you.
soo why did you guys break up??
don't fuss, you are 13. time will pass you will DEFFINATELY find someone better.
your mind won't stay on your ex forever. it just seems that way.
depending on the reason why you guys broke up, if it's a big deal, then it's best not to stay in the past forget it.
2006-12-31 20:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by CAT. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't date him.
2006-12-31 20:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are only 13, you are suffering from "puppy love". there is no way at your age that you have any idea what real love is, this guy is just an infatuation. try googling "infatuation" and "puppy love" and you will learn what I mean..... good luck with the next guy, btw.... (be choosy... make sure he's in med school or something of the like..) @;^)
2006-12-31 20:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Zuben U 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i totally think that you should forget about him. cuz you had all those fights and you don't even know if he still feels the same way about you still. and another thing, friendships last longer then relationships i mean at your age so stick with your friends you don't want them to get mad at you
2006-12-31 20:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are a youngster going threw your first break up.
dude, let it go. you are young and it isnt as big as it feels. let the feelings take its course. this to shall pass. you are young. it is okay. hang out with your friends and kick back from dating one dude. just have a lot of guy friends and some self control and you wont have to worry about serious stuff like this.
2006-12-31 20:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry honey, but you are WAY to young to be dealing with this BS. that is why you should wait until you are a little older to start dating, because it is usually nothing but stress and heartbreak. do yourself a favor and take some time for your self and your friends. you don't need a man right now!
2006-12-31 20:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not let outside people interfere with your relationship or life. Do not worry about how others feel but follow your heart.
2006-12-31 20:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you cant possibly have an ex.
edit - cute. you have 4 neighbor children you call 'ex's.
2006-12-31 20:19:01 · answer #11 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋