I am a early teenager who is about 165cm tall and i weigh 49kg.
Last night this guy said i was chubby. It didnt affect me at the time. but all i've been doing today is crying. I don't look fat i know deep down i'm not but i can't get over it.
2006-12-31 20:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
It's 5'4 108 lbs . To me it sounds like you weight is fine .
Don't worry us guys have no clue how a silly statement can really bug a lady .
Belive it or not that guy might have been hitting on you i swear when we are young the darnest things pop out of our mouths
2006-12-31 20:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Robert S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study Jujitsu, or take some type of martial arts course that will help you increase your sense of self-esteem. Knowing that you can kick-but is a great feeling. BUT, don't use it unless you are physically attacked!!!!!
I also, recommend getting out your Bible and getting close spiritually to Christ.
Both of these things have helped me. When I was Nineteen years old, I was in Teen-Arizona Body Building competition. I've put on a lot of weight, and I know I will loose it when I'm ready, I've accomplished harder things in life.
Over a year ago, I had a teenager cruise past me in the park and called me fatso. I didn't loose my temper with him, I just shook my head, I know that I am carrying a lot of extra fat, but I know who I am, and what I can do.
I'm educated, (have a BA degree)
I'm tuff, can bench press 400 pounds
I'm funny, I get a lot of laughs from friends and family
I'm told I'm handsome by my wife and friends
the list goes on and on.
I can't allow myself to become sick from all my short comings. It is too toxic.
2006-12-31 20:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by BIGDAWG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that you are fat, but since this obviously upset you then you have low self esteem and need to realize that people say and do mean things... don't let this guy get to you, hes just being a butt.. you are fine just the way you are.
2006-12-31 21:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, you're 5'4" and 107lbs. you're a perfect weight...but since you're crying about it you obviously have low self esteem since you already said you don't look fat. Take another look in the mirror and know that people envy your weight
http://www.obesityaction.org/aboutobesity/bmi.php
2006-12-31 20:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that guy just wanted to hurt you. you aren't fat.
don't worry they sometimes tell me: I like your blue shoes but I wear black ones!
so don't worry
2006-12-31 20:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Linkin lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg ur like almost under weight!!!
screw him!!!
he just knows he cant get someone as good as u!!!
2006-12-31 20:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by blah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way your'e fat, he's an ***.
2006-12-31 20:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by courtsnort51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋