Is this bad or good ???
i asked dis gurl i like wat she was doin 4 new years and she asked me why did i ask. what should i say ? or is that a bad or good sign because i dont want her to think im stalking her or something
2006-12-31 19:52:05 · 21 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a normal question to ask around this time of year. My entire office discussed our various plans last week and I don't think anybody was planning on stalking anybody else tonight.
Just tell her that you were interested in what she was doing. That's all, you don't really need to explain further.
2006-12-31 19:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just giving you an open door to ask her out!!! I hope you told her that you wanted to chill with her or take her out!! People can usually tell the difference between stalking and interest. Usually stalking starts right after a simple rejection.
2007-01-01 04:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you have a speech impediment and can't speak proper english, you could atleast type the words correctly. Obviously your speaking skills go hand in hand with your IQ. What on earth is there to think or be asking? Most people are "curious" as to why people ask them stuff. If somebody "acks" you what your doing tomorrow, you'll prob wonder why they "acksed" you.
2007-01-01 04:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no a lot of women like to weigh out their possiblities and keep thier chances of having fun open.
More chances than one if she is aware you are interested she would rather be spending the New Year with a guy who is will to have a relationship with her versus hanging out with the girls and doing the same thing.
This year many women are looking to be long but to someone that is worthy of them.
Best wishes
2007-01-01 03:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by hawleysangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking about someone's plans is not stalking. Finding out about them and then showing up is.
2007-01-01 03:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by creerhnter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she is a very mean grl, or she thought you will ask her out. So if u have no such intension ten forgrt it wat she said. Well u did nothing wrong thr is is nothing bad in asking, tell her did u think anything wrong. U shud have asked this question on yahoo rather than asking her. Lots of grl wud have replied.
2007-01-01 03:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Myth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's too late now...did she tell you after you asked or just say "why did you ask?"
If she didn't answer your original question, she is not interested and acted weird about you even asking.
If she answered after she asked you that she probably was hinting to see if you needed a date and if you were asking her.
It really depends on her facial expression and voice tone when she asked you "why did you ask?"
:)
Happy New Years and God bless! :)
2007-01-01 03:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she asked you why, then tell her this "i was just wondering because if your not doing anything then would you like to (say whatever you had planned)" that way if she says she is doing something it wont seem so obvious that you like her and if you do want her to know that you like her then just tell her "because i really like spending time with you, your a cool person and was wondering what you were doing"
2007-01-01 04:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sydney S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have asked her to join you in whatever you were doing or see if you could get invited along to where ever she was going.She wont know your interested unless you tell/ show her.
2007-01-01 03:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is thinking that you're thinking about going out somewhere with her.. thats why she asked why do you ask? you know? or maybe she got other stuff planned .. answer her.. its not a hard question. just say im just wondering..
2007-01-01 03:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋