2006-12-31 19:44:29 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just date swingers if you feel this way. There is nothing wrong with feeling any particular way, as long as you're up front about it.
2006-12-31 19:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's not, it's disrespectful to your partner, and painful as well, to sleep around unless it's clearly understood and accepted beforehand by both partners. Even then protection should be used at all times to avoid the risk of "sharing" diseases. Personally, I don't like to share, and that's why I always chose monagamous relationships but it is up to each person how they want to live their lives. But if a person is looking to have more than one partners the other partners should know and be okay with this or it is dishonest, disrespectful and worse to everyone else involved, not to mention the fact that it can become horribly complicated. And I truly believe that if you really love someone, you would want to be faithful. Being unfaithful is one of the ultimate forms of betrayal and selfishness.
2007-01-01 04:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tigregrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever expect anyone to do what you think they should do. The reality is, you cannot control their lives in any way shape or form and as for blackmailing them (emotionally), that'll guarantee they will. Faithfulness comes from the person concerned, they have to want to be that way. If a woman ever tried to emotionally blackmail me, I'd be out the door in a flash, cheat, come back and tell her I did then tell her to get lost. btw, I've been faithful to my partner for over 19 years, why, because she never told me to be. I did it voluntarily.
2007-01-01 03:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love them why would you want to sleep around? Of course its not emotional blackmail. I think they are more into this relationship than you are.
2007-01-01 03:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by fitzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional blackmail? No, monogamy is usually counted on once love enters the conversation.
2007-01-01 03:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they do love you and you're in a monogamous relationship, then they wouldn't sleep around. I would hope you wouldn't have to emotionally blackmail them.
2007-01-01 03:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by _nxeural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I like to know my lover is with just me. I don't know what is wrong with that expectation? Because, if we were just sleeping around, what would make our relationship special? However, ever relationship is different.
2007-01-01 03:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's emotional blackmail. They're just more serious than you'd like, perhaps.
2007-01-01 03:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not emotional blackmail, it's a mutual agreement between normal people. In your world however, I don't know.....
2007-01-01 03:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as blackmail, just be wary of people who do think this way, they may not be faithful to you.
2007-01-01 03:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by creerhnter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda agree with that in the way where people push that way to often to keep another hostage in the relationship in that form.. really loving someone is to set them free and if their not happy it is to let them go and find that happiness :) :) :)
2007-01-01 03:50:11 · answer #11 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋