2006-12-31 19:31:38 · 12 answers · asked by JEGANNATH D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rub linament on it, it's a muscle and massaging mightn't help it grow but it'll feel good....
2006-12-31 19:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear "I Need Direction,"
There are a few possible reasons why you are having trouble with penetration.
Firstly, are you clear about the anatomy of the vagina and the surrounding area -- the vulva? This might sound elementary, but lots of people, not only virgins, are quite ignorant about women's sex organs. It would be good to find a picture in books about sex that you can find in bookstores.
What's important to remember is that the clitoris is that little protruding button on top and further down is the vaginal opening. The clitoris is largely responsible for women's sexual enjoyment. Most women need some stimulation to the clitoris in order to reach orgasm.
I would recommend exploring your wife's vulva with her as a second step. After finding her clitoris, put your finger(s) inside her vagina. You will get a feel for the angle you should be aiming for when penetrating, not straight in but angled towards her lower back.
Once you've done this, make sure that your wife is sufficiently lubricated. If she is sexually stimulated, there should be no problem with wetness, as this is the first sign of a woman being sexually stimulated. If she is very nervous or frightened, this might stop her natural lubrication. Do not attempt to penetrate if your wife is dry inside her vagina. This will hurt her and you as well. If needed, use an artificial lubricant, like K-Y Jelly or Astroglide (both of which you can find in the pharmacy).
To make the first time as pleasant as possible, start with having fun together, doing sexual things you both enjoy. You don't have to fully penetrate her at once. Take it slow and relax. You can stretch her hymen (if she has one) slowly and make making love an enjoyable, sensual experience from the get go.
Sincerely,
2007-01-01 04:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can develope ur love by leaving all eveil feelings from ur heart and soul, always be frank and always be in a position to understand others love showing on u. love is not a computer program which can be developed. or else it is not any degree tht u gonno get from universities, try to read others heart and then start loving them.
2007-01-01 04:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by shivaremo_vijayawada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean, 'feelings' of love, you shall have to nurture love by putting yourself at a secondary position to your loved one and it would be better if the feelings are reciprocated. You two should be committed, sincere & honest.
If you mean, 'making love', be patient, be relaxed and enjoy doing everything together. Stay honest to your partner and avoid unsafe sex (safe does not mean straying with precautions to avoid AIDS, STD and VD; safe is sticking to one partner). I hope you know that undesirable, incestual & extra-marital or pre-marital sex is also unsafe, at least psychologically. This also effects the performance.
2007-01-01 05:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is medication available from your nearest medical shop, its called MOVE, use it on your love part and then be happy, it will develop by itself.
2007-01-01 04:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By using it more and more and as frequently as possible.
2007-01-01 04:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by sonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello!
what are you talking about?
you should let us know the details of it.otherwise,we can't help u
ok??
2007-01-01 03:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose, pick and try until you get miss right
2007-01-01 04:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by nkma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with emotions
2007-01-01 20:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use "SHILAJEET".
----------it's a best medicine to develop your love.
and "HAPPY NEW YEAR"
2007-01-01 03:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by mast_kumar2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋