ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 5 months things have been going good and i really like him weve only kissed once and hold hands all the time p.s. (im only 12). so i had to miss a week of school cause me cheer team made it to orlando florda to compete..... we placed 1st in da nation!!!! ok soooo anyways when i got back all my friends said that he cheated on me with this sluty 8th grader and i askde him and he said he didnt i mean i have seen them hug and that doesnt bother me but she is always with him still and i dont know if he really likes me or does he like her? what should i do i need anwsers!!!!!! ppl plz help
Thank you sooooo much happy new year 2007 :)
2006-12-31 19:24:43 · 11 answers · asked by xo_Gabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he doesn't love you. It's not you it's him. No male is capable of actually loving with all their heart until at least 25. (And some never do.) The way you think of "love" and the way he thinks of "love" are two totally different things. Basically once a guy hits puberty the only thing going through his head is getting in a girls pants. (And no if you let him he won't love you.) Do yourself a favor and focus on being young while you still can. You have a lifetime ahead of you to worry about whether some stupid boy loves you or not.
2006-12-31 19:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by arrow_gant_one 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get involved in these stupid mind games at your age? You're only 12 and already you are having a crisis in worrying about whether or not your boyfriend is cheating on you? Dump him immediately and get involved in something that will actually be of some benefit to you such as volunteering to help people who have real problems. You know, like the elderly, the poor, homeless children, the handicapped. Volunteer to help out at a nursing home, or animal shelter, or church, or anyplace your parents approve of. This will help you get your mind off yourself and will give you some depth and perspective about how the real world functions.
2007-01-01 03:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like u....but im not sure if he loves u...u need tu ask him why shes around you so much and how he feels about her....and if he jus makes his answer simple or he acts like he doesnt want to have the conversation...then its a good chance he's lyin..but u never kno...im jus tellin u my opinion...so if u think ur friends r ur true friends and they kno he cheated then its a good chance he did...so move on gurl...you'll find sumone way better then him dat will treat u much better.....and how old is he n e ways??? Good Luck!
2007-01-01 03:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want my honest opinion, i think you all are kids and you need to go back to playing with Barbies (or I guess Bratz these days, right?)
You don't need to be dealing with this. Ask your mom what she thinks.. moms always give the best advice :)
I think your boyfriend is a jerk and you should dump him and take a break from dating until you are older. He sounds like a loser to me.
Happy New Year
2007-01-01 03:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For get him. It will hurt for awhile. That happened to me when I was 13. The boy got the other girl PG. Sad thing with me I still love him as much as I did then.
2007-01-01 03:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dancingsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open yr eyes! hes been with this slut once doesnt mean hes gonna just forget bout her and move back to u! i mean guys are like that. once yr gone they just find themselves another one and once yr back they immediately give u the cute look and say they didnt mean it and they love u and all that crap.
he likes her no doubt and u should just dump him cos he is no good for u! hes just gonna get with her behind your back. he makes it seem like he loves u and all but truthfully hes just like " you've seen me with her so just dump me cos i wanna be her boyfriend". trust everyone else who answered he is not good for u. find someone else who actually appreciates u.
happy new year~ hope this helps ^.^
2007-01-01 04:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 12 u dont know about love.
2007-01-01 13:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should move on and find someone else more mature. good luck and have a happy new year.
2007-01-01 03:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahahahahaha, love no. Like yes.
2007-01-01 03:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL AT THIS PONIT I THINK HES CHEATING ON YOU SRRY
P.S. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 03:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋