can not forget? Is that normal. I feel a little ashamed about my thoughts which I can not tell my husband or others. I just can't get some things off of my mind. I am not a bad person I just don't know how to do or what to do about these thoughts of past things and that little fantasy type of world of the what ifs. I mean no one any harm in my life but I think all this is troubling me and harming me in some way. I am supposedly bipolar but I don't think that has anything to do with it. I just have trouble letting go of past friends and I can't stop thinking of them. Is that normal to ponder on them a lot throughout the day knowing I should not be? and yes I do see a psychologist and I have told her some of this but It is my choice to do it or think it or not to, but sometimes it overtakes me and my thinking altogether. Thanks for any advice or suggestions. Maybe I still just needed some closure to past relationships and did not heal from it and don't know how.
2006-12-31 19:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by just julie 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I was best friends with a guy who was bi polar. He refused help or medication. One of the BIG things in his life was preserving memories. He would literally hide pictures of past wives and girlfriends in a storage shed so no one could
"take away his memories". Even though women "destroyed" his heart over and over, he chose to remember the good times and ponder on those.
I have people from my past that I miss and think about sometimes and I think that is fine as long as it doesn't obssess you or interfer with your marriage. I think these thoughts sometimes go along with growing older. What if I had handled that relationship different? What if we had met later in life?
Your not alone.......look how many people go to classmates and search for old high school friends!!
2006-12-31 19:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put it in the back of your mind .. and lock it up with a key ,there is no reason to tell anyone else..Everyone at one times gets glimpses of their previous lives.. its called for the most part de javu but well alot of others can remember but refuse to .. and most children carry memories of other lives up until they are about seven but usually forget for the most part after that.People don't want to really deal with it and ignore it when they remember and sometimes think they are crazy or a little nutty so they just keep it to themselves. just its better that you keep it to yourself unless you have someone that can share their memories with you on a level that they know where you are coming from.Who gives a crap that you are bipolar. lived with one 23 years she never got help and really has nothing to do with what you are talking about.Most people don't want to remember or believe its best left unsaid unless you know who you are talking too..
2006-12-31 19:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have thoughts like that too.. I think memories come back to us at the oddest times but I don't think you have any thing to worry about unless you feel yourself becoming dangerous. Then you need to seek help.
2006-12-31 19:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by gman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having fantasies as long as they don't get in the way of your real life.
2006-12-31 19:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ashamed! Try lighting three white candles ,pray to your higher power for direction,spirtual awareness,and understanding in this world and your pastlife.....You will get the answers you need.
2006-12-31 19:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by LVforever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats average. i suggest a diary to right all of your thoughts of your past life down to clear them from your mind.
2006-12-31 19:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tenten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever read the book ACCIDENT OF BIRTH,BY HEATHER NEFF? THIS SOUNDS LIKE A QUESTION SHE WOULD ASK...
2006-12-31 19:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by PEACHES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's because you're bipolar...no. it's MUCH MUCH bigger than that.
2006-12-31 19:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋