I've heard both ways... first sex on the wedding night, and first sex on the honeymoon... which way should it be?
And which was is it traditionally?
2006-12-31 19:12:22 · 28 answers · asked by TheAllKnowingFizz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wedding night... ussually, if you waited till you're married, its for traditional, religous, or other personal reasons. But once you've said your "I do's" and its legally bound, then by all standards, there are ussually no other reasons to wait.
2006-12-31 19:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Saphire Aurora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the wedding night. I never heard waiting for the honeymoon and in a way, the wedding night is actually a part of the honeymoon, its just named wedding night because it is the first day of the marriage, the first day of the honeymoon.
If this letter is for real, I congratulate on your decision.
2006-12-31 19:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Child of Abba 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wedding night
2006-12-31 20:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wedding night. A lot of people aren't able to have a real honeymoon, so.. all they have is their wedding night!
Plus... you're already married by then, so..
Anyway.. I personally think it would make you uncomfortable if you DIDN'T make love the first night you're married, you know? Anyway... tradition says wedding night.. the honeymoons just for EXTRA romance and alone time!
2006-12-31 20:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Chef Mommy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go for the wedding night, but be aware that the two of you may be utterly exhausted and unable to summon up the proper mood, OK....if that happens, wait for the honeymoon. The big things is to make it enjoyable, not a chore (believe me, that will come with time)
2006-12-31 20:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Yinzer Power 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the wedding night is usually the first night of the honeymoon so whatever the first night you spend together can be it ;but, you might agree to make it the secong night so that you can both just rest after the wedding
2006-12-31 20:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have the wedding night be on the honeymoon.
dude, really, it's up to you when you have sex. DON'T do it cause you feel forced, or like its officially the right time. If, on your wedding night, you're too tired to go at it, then wait. but if you can't wait-then do it.
2006-12-31 19:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Wedding night.
2006-12-31 19:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by OneN 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well traditionally its the wedding night but if only if the two of you are comfortable with it..if not..just cuddle hold each other..and reminise about the day..and wait for the honeymoon...
2007-01-04 11:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by diane b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Traditional is wedding night, but that is something that is completely up to and your future wife. Talk to her about it. Tip for your honeymoon, ring the resort and organize a bottle of bubbly, candles and a warm rose petal bath to be ready for when you arrive. It will be very romantic for you both. but leave it for a surprise.
2006-12-31 19:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the wedding night! That is the traditional way.
2007-01-02 08:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by JadeAMurray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋