So I have been talking with this guy who I have known for a really long time. Well we have been talking for a few months now and we have both liked each other since we first met about 7 years ago but we never said anything because we were young and both of us were really shy. Well now we both really like each other soo much and have become really close. He actually broke up with his girlfriend because he said he was given another chance that he should of taken mant years ago. Well he is honestly the sweetest guy in the entire world and im not exaggerating either.But just recently I have heard that he was seen with his ex-girlfriend in his car together, which is really odd because he had told me that she really gets on his nerves. And honestly she is literally crazy, believe me I know. So I couldnt understand why he would be with her if she really gets to him like he says she does. I'm not sure if he was just being a good samaritan and giving her a ride because he really is a sweetheart
2006-12-31 19:07:16 · 10 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I havent gotten the chance to ask him about it yet because i havent talked to him for a few days now. But about 2 weeks ago i had asked him if we were going to be together for new years eve so he could be my new years kiss! And of course he said yes that he would really like that. Well today I got to talk to him for just a minute and he told me he was going with his parents out to a local place. I asked him about us hanging out and he said we could then before he went. Hello i wanted a new years kiss not a 4 in the evening kiss. Well he didnt ask me to come or say anything about later that night and that was the end before i could say anything else he was gone. So should i give this guy a chance to explain what's up with him and his ex? Should i forgive him for blowing me off for people he sees everyday to go to a place he always goes to, when i havent seen him for a long time?Should he get another shot?
2006-12-31 19:07:41 · update #1
Nope...sounds like he's seeing her on the side. If you want to give him another chance, then ask him straight out if he's been seeing her. n
2006-12-31 19:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be the happiest time of your life, instead it is the miserablest. Even giving him a second chance, you will never trust him ever again no matter how much you love him. You will also wonder for ever, if perhaps it was not the first time he deceived you. You ask the measure of love, well , it means total trust, and devotion to the one person you love above all others. It certainly does not mean being unfaithful. What do you think his reaction would have been if you had taken a boyfriend. Your feet would not have touched the floor when he threw you out the door!!. Think long and hard on this, you could have a life-time of unhappiness, and you deserve more.
2016-03-29 02:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It doesn't sound as if he really wants anything with you except to maybe keep you interested in case things don't work out with his supposedly "ex".
I doubt that he's just being a good samaritan. He was with her because he wanted to be.
And just for the record, the sweetest guy in the world wouldn't tell you that you'd be together for New Years and then blow you off...
2006-12-31 19:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by katme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance to explain...but make sure he's not making up some lie just to make you happy...look into it. Maybe ask his parents what they did for New Years...if it doesn't include him then he's obviously lying. Guys say things to girls that they know will make the girl happy, so make sure he's not doing that. Try and get proof that he's not lying.
2006-12-31 19:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Marukka S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe you should give him a chance to explain himself. Would you want a chance to explain yourself? I'm sure he's a sweet guy and if you cut him off for what's not real, then he's going to be real hurt.
Forgiveness...let him explain and then decide if you want to be with him.
2006-12-31 19:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one.
Ask him what is up first, and give him a chance to explain, but it doesn't sound good.
2006-12-31 19:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a shot. like u said he's the sweetest guy ever. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-31 19:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not worth the effort. Let him go and get on with your life.
2006-12-31 19:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give hima shot.
you need him to TELL YOU.
he sounds like th kind of guy to lie and hide the truth just to tell you you what he thinks will make you happppy.
2006-12-31 19:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lor. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give him a chance to explain i mean you 're in love with him
2006-12-31 19:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by supernolwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋