she has a hard time with trust. she been gettin cheatin on so she expects somthen bad to happen
2006-12-31 19:02:07 · 7 answers · asked by de 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient and boost her self-esteem by telling her often how you care about her, that she is pretty, etc. Eventually, she will see that you aren't "one of those guys" Good LUCK!
2006-12-31 19:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by steffers4979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to tell that woman that has been cheated on to not take it out on the other men that come in her life, but honestly that hurt stays with you....You can not just forget it b/c it is real pain that you feel every time you open your heart up again you realize that you heart can go through all that again..So my best advice to you would be give her light at the end of the tunnel.Show her that all men are not like that.Even if you guys do not work out forever you can still show her and everyone else that good uncheating men still exist! Just bare with her try to understand where her pain is coming from..If you give her time and never give her a reason to doubt you everything should be fine. If you Love her then give as much effort as you can to prove to her you are not that man..It may sound like you got the shity end of the stick, but that is how the world works..The best you can do is be yourself and show the world that you are out there...
Good luck !!
2007-01-01 03:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on loving her...prove to her you're not going to hurt her by showing her (not just by tell her). Don't be the bad guy that causes her more issues with trust... wether it is cheating...hitting...hiding anything from her. Reassure her of your love constantly... it can wear you out, but if you love her it will be worth it. See a psychologist together to help her get through it in a healthy way for both of you. She needs your attention(listen when she talks even body language), affection (give her all you can because obviously she is lacking), and approval (many women feel something is wrong with them (looks, attitude, sex...so on and so forth) because of a man cheating on them) Good Luck
2007-01-01 03:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by she's been cheated? You cheated her or she was cheated by other guys?
If the latter is the case, then you have to prove to her you're worth it man. Nothing comes easy. Well, if it does come easy, it will go away just as easily too. You got to work this out with your sincerity. Stay with her. At all times. Keep you r handphone nearby. Glue it to your ears if you have to.
2007-01-01 03:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Phantefoxerio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to love her to life. If you are good to her, she will gradually open up to you more. I think it would be wise to tell her your code of ethics when it comes to honesty, trustworthiness, and loyalty. Tell her that these are values that you live by and are not just words.
2007-01-01 03:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best man you can, and don't take it personal. Its not that she distrusts you specifically, just men in general. You have to show her not all men are cheaters.
2007-01-01 03:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Chris R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if her issues interfere with your relationship you must let her go. dont let her craziness drive you mad!
2007-01-01 03:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋