well i really get nervous around whole bunch of girls and i feel the burning heat inside my body and i don't know how to get rid of it and i feel nervous cause i don't know if a girl will ever like me cause how i look and my height cause i am short and i don't think i am that type of guy a girl looks for.......................
2006-12-31 18:56:06 · 20 answers · asked by ali 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not all abt luks ....be confident in what u are,react normally when u r in gals ,dont be quiet,gals like guys which r confident & believe in thenselves
2006-12-31 18:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I'm a girl. Nice to meet you.
Oh, man, I didn't know guys felt like that around girls! Why? We're all just people. I know that some girls, most of them, judge boys by there looks. This is why some people think that if you're not hot or sexy, you'll never get married.
It's not true for every situation. Me, I'm not one of those girls. I actually had a crush on a short boy before because of his personality. And now I have two crushes, and all of my friends constantly point out their problems. All I ever say is, "Oh really? I didn't notice he had a weird nose." If someone really likes you, they won't care.
We all have problems. Don't feel nervous. Just relax.
2006-12-31 19:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by xxWannabeWriterxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you feel confident around girls you're not attracted to is because you frankly don't care what they say or think about you. Ever wonder why the jerks get the hotties? It's because they don't care what the hotties think of them. So here is the catch 22....if you really want to the hotties to like you, you've got to get to a place where it doesn't matter to you one way or the other. Then you'll have the confidence to talk to them and ask them all the dangerous questions. Good Luck!
2016-03-29 02:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Chill out a second!!!!We all feel that even when ya are 50 years old!! I would love a guy to have a burning heat inside his body! DO NOT TRY TO GET RID OF IT!! Think of......
2006-12-31 19:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly most guys gets really nervous around girls but just realize its usually not about looks! if u have an ostanding personality and really try to get urself involved in conversations and in parties, clubbing ,etc. then girls honestly wont care u just gotta show that ur fun and confident! hope this helps! good luck hun! =) happy new years!
2006-12-31 19:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by ☮Dano922☮ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have not much contact with gals to be so afraid of them...it will go off after a while i used to have it when i was younger but now im just confident in front of them...nothing to be scared of just try to talk to them and get used to it... And how short are you?? Im short too im slightly under 5'8 so dont worry too much it doesnt really matter... and i teach you one easy way to approach a babe... count to 3 seconds 1...2...3.. and go off introducing yourself... Tell yourself that you JUST HAVE TO DO IT within this 3 seconds or you evaporate to nothingness...
2006-12-31 19:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with feeling nervous and being honest about it...in fact many girls will appreciate it cause they may be nervous as well..
there is nothing wrong with short guys...most women I know do not care about height...
2006-12-31 19:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the kinda guys like you that can get more girls if you tired. What I mean is that your not confortable around girls, what it really is is that your not confortable with yourself. Once you are and you are confident then you wont be as nervous.
2006-12-31 19:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something that makes you feel powerful and confident. You shouldn't be nervous around these girls, if anything, they should be nervous around you!
2006-12-31 19:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Laureneliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! There is a girl for every guy! Gratitude and happiness overcome nervousness anytime for me! Just be thankful there ARE girls to begin with!
2006-12-31 18:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and be confident about it! Girls are always attracted to a confident man. When you are talking to them, think, "Thay are lucky I am even talking to them!", Hope this helps! If you have any other questions e-mail me at ambi_09@yahoo.com
2006-12-31 19:01:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋