i really needs myself to change, being a elder one in my family , i want to support them financially?

Question

iam a elder one in my family , i want to see my family in a better position as what it is today so just guide me how can i do that , i have a iner feeling taht iam colourless , not having personality , i just try to cahnging little by little & taht too it is not so easy to change ourself in one day taht right , but if i want to success in my life i have to cahnge myself , now you suggest me how to do it
whether i should read some motivaton books or chat with the people you have more knowledge than me or simply wait for the things to be slowly come

Answer 1

precisely you should go for communication classes. Your grammar is too weak and needs a lot of attention. please keep a check on ur verbal communication, that is possible only through continous practice of English comprehension reading and writing
And for u personality development means a facial attraction, but in the true sense, personality development means self-respect and a progress. so dont get frustrated with the defects, try to be positive and think positive. Communication is not a one day course, it needs a lot of practice and self confidence too. Try it .. All the best & may this new year bring all the change u need in ur life....... cheers..

Answer 2

You have to start with in yourself. Change how you perceive or "see" things. Always be positive in everything that comes into your life no matter how "negative" it seems. Choose to see the glass as half full and not half empty. Psyche yourself every morning about the positive things around you and within you to help you change to being an optimist Reading inspirational books would help too but the most important thing is to start within yourself in the change in your perception.

Answer 3

Get yourself organized. Buy a note book. Write down things you need to do. At the top of your paper write down,"From this day forward I intend to do the best I can to the best of my ability. I want to be all I can be, to help my family." Under line it and write it big and bold.

Take care of you demeanor. Clean yourself up and buy some clothes that fit the style of the day. In other words, "Dress for success".

On your note book write down your realistic short term goals in one column and make a column of your long term goals.

You will begin to feel a sense of accomplishment as you begin to cross of the list of goals.

You will enjoy the challenge. Make it your own secret challenge unless you need cooperation from others to help you meet your goals.

I can't exist unless I have the challenge of making goals and meeting them one at a time.

Hope this will help you to turn over a new leaf for the new year. Remember, it wont happen over night but in time, you will wake up every morning and be able to say, "I love life."

“ If you don’t know where your going.
Any road will take you there.”
George Harrison

If you always do what you always did,
you will always get what you always got.

Answer 4

I think elder people are the coolest of all!No matter oldest,youngest,or in the middle, you can always support your family.I want to tell you not to be mad at you or anyone else because of your place in line.Sometimes life goes that way!

Answer 5

If you are really passionate about that...

you need to work hard dude... give your best shot
in ur lifestyle... always make a difference no matter
what kinds of challenges you are in.