this boy likes me alot.....even when i have been crying and my makeup is all down my face he will say:you look really nice......but he has cheated on a girl and i dont wanna get hurt....what should i do....i know he will ask me out thursday and i dont know what to say.................................
2006-12-31 17:58:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say give him a chance. maybe he asked out the girl and then started liking another girl but didnt know how to dump the other girl her was dating before without getting her hurt. then he got himself into even more nasty fix. if you susspect him of cheating then ask him. if you dont say yes to him then you will wonder for the rest of you life if he would have been honest to you and a good boyfriend.
2006-12-31 18:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, be sure that you are ready to enter a relationship and can enter it with an open mind. If you enter the relationship thinking that he will cheat on you, chances are it will push him away - he will get sick of the jealousy and the fights and probably will cheat. If you are willing to give him a shot, make it clear to him that you do trust him and that all you want from him is honesty. Hurt is a part of life, and you can't go through life avoiding situations just because something "might" happen.
2007-01-01 02:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by missy_beth_au 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what grade are you in? and what grade is he in? if ur in high school or lower. . . guys are now trying to get as much chicks as possible. and if he already cheated on a girl before you he's probably either a player or is a demanding boyfriend and his ex couldnt be everything for him. But it comes down to if you want to take that chance on him. but it depends on where you're at in your life. and if you've been crying and ur make up is messed up he should asked whats wrong? can i do anythin to help? but i donno the situation your in. just make sure in your decision if you say yes its not because you didn't want to hurt his feelings. this means its out of pity. hope it helps =D
2007-01-01 02:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by math55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this boy really likes you, you need to give him a chance. Don't be so attached to him when you are going out, and then see how the relationship is going. Like, ask around to see if he is seeing anyone else. If he is, then you dump him infront of everyone. If he doesn't, then just love him.
2007-01-01 02:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ur answer should be give him a chance
no one wants to hurt u should not be afraid
he might not of like the girl he cheated on but
he likes u pursue happiness to death bring
peace with the inevitable end of this part of
are journey
2007-01-01 02:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, say yes. if he truly likes you and doesnt want to hurt you he wont cheat on you.
and if by chance he does cheat on you, you will learn from it and it will make you stronger.
but take a chance, lifes short
2007-01-01 02:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say NO and run! Of course he is saying whatever it is you want to hear - how would he get into your pants otherwise. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-01-01 02:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance but make sure that if he cheats , he pays. good luck and have a happy new year.
2007-01-01 02:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD SAY THAT YOU LIKE HIM BUT YOU DON'T WANNA GET HURT so i want you to promise that you want cheat on me and hope he doesn't break his promise!!!!!!
2007-01-01 02:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by AJ:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yeah, and give him a chance. You never know what'll happen unless you try...
2007-01-01 02:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋