We have a lot in common, and he's only a year older than me. He's a good friend too. There's also the fact that he's a friend's friend's brother. I can't get him out of my mind, especially since I have only one semester left with him. Remember, I'm not allowed to date yet, so I can't even enjoy time like that.
2006-12-31 17:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by Laureneliz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm trying to end the crush, but can't. How can I do that? I'm good at long distance relationships with friends since this is my second large move. How can I become better friends without still liking him?
2006-12-31 18:31:00 · update #1
Talk to him as much as you can. Maybe meet him at the mall on Saturdays and just hang out .
Get his email address before you leave.
M
2006-12-31 17:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) I would say to date the guy...go somewhere with a friend and then have the friend split up when he gets there then come back before the parents pick you up....just make sure to ask the friend to do this by saying "I need to ask you a favor" so you don't look like you are trying to do a cover-up using him/her.
2) When on the date first do the usual things: talk, joke, don't do anything too intimate.
Repeat steps 1 and 2 for the second date, but in the end of the second date let him know your situation IE say it's frustrating you are moving out of town but always had a crush on him and at least wanted to know what it may be like.
Then work with him to decide what you want to do.
A) If you, for example, are moving to a nearby town or will visit his area fairly frequently (IE at least once every couple of month) it should be reasonable to ask for a long-distance relationship, talking by phone much of the time.
B) If you aren't in the same situation as A) it's more reasonable just to call the guy now and then to talk as friends after you move. But leave things open IE you should both be open to other relationships but, if nothing settles by the end of both your being at highschool and both of you seem interested in similar colleges, you two might want to consider reuniting in a full dating relationship when college starts (or earlier if you guys, say, are able to attend the same or nearby highschools later on).
Just be open-minded and honest about it, don't let him "escape" but don't make him your only option either.
Best luck!
2007-01-01 02:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur keeping as a friend then its ur choice
if u want a long distance relationship like i have with my boyfriend then u could do this few things to keep in touch and make him feel loved!
1) iam in a long distance r'ship...we have mail a common one that we send it backforth..we add things to it..and send it back to eachother.....we have catogorisd it like UR PLACE,MY PLACE,OTHER PLACE!
so we can add in and whenever we are together we have loads of things to do....
2)Buy an inexpensive decorative jar or container. Then buy 365 Hershey Kisses, one for every day of the year. On the Hershey paper tabs, write one thing you like, love, or appreciate about your significant other, and only allow them to have one each day for a year. It takes some time and thought, but they will think of you with every daily kiss. This is a great idea when distance is involved, but works wonders at home too.
3)If you are going to be away from each other for a long period of time, get a video camera and record things you do throughout the day. Send it to them, and have them do the same. That way you can still see each other, no matter how far apart you are.
4) mail him e-ards for a month
5)letters/card by post
6)gifts by post
2007-01-01 04:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well befo he leaves u need to call him or talk to him in private and tell him how u feel about him. Second ask yo parent if u can startb dating sit dim down and talk to them let them kno dat u will always be dere baby but u are gettin older kno so they need to realize dat u r goin to want to start dating. Third ask them if yall can not move after u find out if yo crush likes u. Den if he do ask yo parents if u can stay until u r ready to move cuz u do not want to leave all yo friends and memorys behind. Then after u finish highschool yall can move.
2007-01-01 02:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Shakina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh.... I remember those days.... years ago.
You know, as tough you may make it seem, when you begin HS, you'll be so busy that you'll have 0 time for things like this. And after HS when you go to college, it'll only get worse.
Would you rathe sacrifice your dreams over a guy or live your life with a bright future, knowing that one day... better things will come.
Best,
2007-01-01 01:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say your crush is about to go to high school so you must be in primary that is so cute, hay your still young you'll met heaps more people you said He's a good friend too i think you guys could still speak to each other and see each other on special days,
2007-01-01 02:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family that ur going to the Cinema with your regular friends and go on a date with him.
2007-01-01 02:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by mimo_2991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another crush and never worry if you are meant to be with this boy then it will eventually happen when you are old enough to date.
2007-01-01 01:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not allowed to date. Case closed. Concentrate on your studies and grow up.
2007-01-01 01:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try moving on forget about him. just try to have fun with your friends. good luck and have a happy new year.
2007-01-01 01:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋