2006-12-31 17:35:09 · 16 answers · asked by Kisa_wa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's bad sex. Or if it's not time. Or if your not having it with the right person, in the right place, for the right reason, in the right time zone.
Now c'mon. Why the silly question?
2006-12-31 17:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not. In my opinion, if you feel unsure that you are ready to have sex, it is probably better to wait. The first time you have sex, it will probably release a lot of strong (and possibly conflicting) emotions, and this can be a lot to handle if you aren't ready for it. Also, remember that once you lose your virginity (if virginity is a meaningful concept to you), you can't get it back.
In the United States, a majority of people have sex as teenagers, and many later wish that they were still virgins. Having sex with someone can be a huge emotional investment, especially for women.
Some people feel that sex outside of marriage is immoral. These people often feel this way for religious reasons. If you believe that the Bible is the inerrant word of God and should be interpreted literally, then you probably should not have sex unless you are married, because the Bible condemns sex outside of marriage (as far as I know).
Some people would prefer to marry a virgin.
People who have many different sex partners are at risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. These can be annoying, painful, disfiguring, and (in some cases) fatal.
If you do not feel ready to be pregnant, then you must be very careful when having sex. If you have sex with someone for a year and use only a condom, you have a 14% chance of becoming pregnant if you use a condom as effectively as the average person. If you are very careful, you still have a 3% chance of becoming pregnant. (Source: U.S. Food and Drug Administration, 1997, http://www.fda.gov/fdac/features/1997/conceptbl.html )
If you use two methods of birth control (for example, the birth control pill and a condom), you have only a very small chance of getting pregnant.
On the positive side, of course, most people who have sex while in a loving relationship report that it feels extremely good and that it helps them to feel really connected to their lover. In addition, some people (but fewer) report that they enjoy sex regardless of the circumstances.
No one but you can decide if it is "bad" to have sex. However, before you make a decision, consider carefully your moral and religious beliefs; the health effects of being sexually active; what methods of birth control you want to use; and what you will do if you become pregnant.
2006-12-31 17:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be bad, if you don't do it right. But this is true for everything people do.
Eating can be bad, you don't do it right. Driving a car can be bad, if you don't do it right. Walking accross the road can be bad, if you don't do it right.
Without sex, men and women would not be attracted to each other. They would not have romantic relationships. They would not have children. And without children, no society can survive for long.
Sex is good because it is a way of creating loving relationships and life itself.
You just have to take care to do it right. Or else, your whole life can become one big unpleasant accident.
2006-12-31 17:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends om you are you ready for the headache and heartache that sex brings with it as well as how old you are and yes age does matter as you get older you find the things you worried about and thought where such a big deal where nothing at all
then there is the issue of why you want to have sex is it because you are making a decision or friends or partner ?
and if your not sure no is always better!
2006-12-31 17:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by tofatandblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a wonderful thing between two people that really like eachother its even ok if its just a one night stand. But if you are not ready for what might become of it (std, a baby) then you should not have sex. always be safe though, have him wear a condom, and if you can take the pill. The guy is almost always ready for sex, but its up to you if you want to or not.
Make up your mind on whats right for you alone!
2006-12-31 17:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Just don't abuse it. Do it with someone you love and do it when you intend for it to be just that one person, FOREVER! We can't predict the future and sometimes things don't work out and if things fall apart with someone you loved and had sex with, that's alright! I'm just trying to say that I don't think that one night stand type things are right but sex in general is not bad. Just depends on the situation and the type of person you are. Go with your conscience.
2006-12-31 17:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by anjusmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not unless you're in love and you aren't being pressured into it then no. If you're prostituting or pimping or being forced(which so u should call the police) or being pressured into it it's bad.
2006-12-31 18:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by A guy who cant fall outta love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure of "doing it", then you are not ready. It is a great form of communication that should not be wasted like some people (those who sleep around).
2006-12-31 17:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by pumpkinpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God (or evolution) made us sexual critters - so its certainly not bad to have sex. God (or evolution) also made us intelligent - so use some form of birth control, preferably pill combined with condom.
-dh
2006-12-31 18:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are a minor or a guy in jail , or want to burn in Hell for eternity
2006-12-31 17:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋