I really like this girl and she knows it too. Well the other day we were hanging out she said she had a dream about me and previosly told me a few days before that she would show me. Well she refused to tell me it throughout the whole conversation and then as i was leaving she told me it was a secret and gave me a peck on the cheek, then as i was leaving she said in her dream it wasnt on the lips. Well the next 2 days i called her at night like i did everynight before and she said she would call me back and never did. Last night i talked to her for and hour and then tonight she said she would call me back and didnt. What should i say to this girl? I feel like shes avoiding me. She knows i like her and its killing me that shes doing this to me. Ive never liked someone as much as ive liked her. She used to respond to all my texts and now only responds to some. I really dont know what to say to her. I feel like texting her something but i dont know what. I need help!
2006-12-31 17:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by brillohead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would tell her how i feel (well she knows i like her), but shes always telling me of her ex boyfriend who always says stuff to her like that, I just dont want to seem to desperate and short patient, Im so confused!!!!!!
2006-12-31 17:29:06 · update #1
how should i tell her how i feel?
2006-12-31 17:37:10 · update #2
Grow some balls and tell her how you feel.A woman will never go for a guy that cant even speak his mind honestly.
2006-12-31 17:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by sir confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said, it seems you are not in the "liking" feeling, but you are in "love", alright? ^ ^
I am also in the same situation as you. How old are you? I might be younger than you. However, in my case, I HAVE told her my real feeling, overcoming all kinds of fears of rejection. Sadly, she said that she just want to be friends. BUT, I tell you what; rejection is not the end of everything. There are 1001 reasons to your rejection: Parents, peer pressures, academic, et cetera.
So, the best thing to do if you feel that this girl does not like you anymore is to follow your heart. Ask yourselves, "Do I really love this girl?", or "Can I spend the rest of my life without her?"
If the answers are "I love her" and "I can't", then I would suggest you to wait for her, like what I am doing now. Be kind to her; offer your help; STAND UP for her; be there for her; text her sometimes (but not excessively okay?; and give her surprises (as a friend).
Who knows someday she might realise that you are the man of her heart? Life is like a box of Chocolate!
But, you are yet to know the root of the problems; ask her either personally, calling her or even e-mail if you are really scared. I did by email.
But, I believe that this girl is really special for you! Good luck!
2007-01-01 01:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We tend to like what we cannot have. Or get obsessed to get it, in the worst case. If you show some self-respect, maybe she'll make up her mind. Maybe she'll even come running to you! Love works best when we keep our expectations low. Flirting is a game. Just take it that way. Don't attach to any outcome.
2007-01-01 01:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't feel the same for you and is in fact starting to find you annoying. Stop calling her so much and texting her. And find someone who treats you with respect.
2007-01-01 01:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
U have to tell her how u feel. quick. if u dont u will keep hurting until u tell her. good luck and have a happy new year.
2007-01-01 01:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋