i have 3 guys in my life. one i was best friends with as a child and we just went our seperate ways. a ouple of weeks agto we started talking again and we have hung out. i think he wants more but im not sure. my family loves him and i always have fun with him. the other is a boy in my class and we flirt everyday. and one point he asked me out but we both decided we should wait bc we wanted to get to know eachother better first. my family does not really like him, but i dont think they will veen give him a chance. i like him and i think i want to c what could happen between us. but then there is the last guy. he has been one of my closests friends for about 2 years. we hang out all the time and always have fun. i have always thought about us going further than just friends but i never wanted to try anything bc i didnt want to lose our friendship. i dont know wht guy to choose and i dont want to hurt anyones feelings. what should i do?
2006-12-31 16:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the guy that you have the most fun with. The one that you're the most comfortable around. The one that makes you feel the best about yourself. What is your heart telling you to do? Who do you have the most feelings for? Just be thankful that you have so many to choose from. Not every girl gets that opportunity.
2006-12-31 16:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Te best thing to do is just wait and see. You are a lucky girl to have three options before you, do not let it dampen your spirits.
When you are young, life will present you with many chances and choices, and the only thing you can do is ask God to guide you, and ask your heart, not your body, to make your decisions. As a young lady, you will often mistake lust and love. Out of these three, which one can you tell anything to, and he will still come back. And I mean anything at all. That is a good indicator. If you feel like you have to hide a part of yourself from one of them, that is not the one either.
Your parents not liking one of them does not count, because , they never got to know him.
Whoever you feel the safest, happiest, and most free to be totally youself with should be your choice.
2007-01-01 00:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by wehweh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue giving all 3 guys their chance. A fourth guy is coming too.
You must very pretty and kind hearted. Who said you have to stop at fourth?
2007-01-01 01:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by 64bit upgrader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first **** what your parents think because its your life and you know it better than they do thats gives three choices again then id wait and see what happens before you choose one
2007-01-01 10:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should focus on a totally new thing, something you have never before considered spending time on: your studies.
2007-01-01 00:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pick the guy that your family dont like.... maybe you shouldnt pick any and just worry about important things... no but really if you r going to pick one... pick the one you trust the most
2007-01-01 00:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flip a coin
2007-01-01 00:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋