Im 17 and a lot of girls find me, hmm how should i put this....... Un-attractive, so they wont hardly give me a chance. What am i suppose to do????
2006-12-31 16:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by J_Dawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well its who you are on the inside not the outside just be yourself and you will find someone who will love you for who you are not how you look.Good Luck
2006-12-31 16:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am your exact age and a girl. Take it from me, some girls are just idiots. My bf isn't that much attractive, but his intelligent mind is what attracts me. You sound like you are a decent boy, all you need is a decent girl. Carry yourself as if you can get all of the girls on the planet and eventually they will come to you. Let that character of yours (which i am sure is very handsome and fantastic) shine through. It is refreshing for girls to find somebody like you after being with all of these no nothing guys. Remember, looks don't last forever. the highschool hunk will one day be bald and beauty won't always put food on the table or intelligent words in your mouth. Ignore those morons and enjoy yourself and the attractiveness inside of you and outside. Good luck and happy New year!
2007-01-01 00:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about those girls. Make sure you are clean. Clean hair, clean skin, sweet breath, etc. Do you know what it is that they find un-attractive about you? If you have bad teeth, make an appointment with a dentist and get them fixed. Do you need a hair cut? Do you need to deal with pimples? Clean fingernails? Deal with anything about yourself that you can think of that might be a turn off, then go out and meet some different girls. You've got plenty of time. Happy New Year!
2007-01-01 00:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....how do you feel about you, would be the first question. In our society, beauty his highly ranked. Fortunately, you are only 17 years old. There is still time for you to come into your own. I don't know what they find unattractive about you, but if it's weight, or something fixable like that, put some will power into it and fix it if it bothers you. I know girls are important at your age, but maybe you should focus on other things. Focus on your future, school, etc. One last thing, if you don't value yourself, and aren't confident in who you are, it's unlikely that anyone will see the real you. You have to learn to be happy with who you are, then fate will step in and you will find someone who really likes you.
2007-01-01 00:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do know that your body is a temple. What you put in is what's going to come out. If you drink too much caffine you get acne. Try drinking water. Work out. Only you can make your physical appearance different. How do you feel about yourself? You ever heard about the ugly duckling, she turned into a beautiful swan. I look at my husbands school pictures and laugh and think what the humhumhaw! but he looks good now. beauty is skin deep but love is to the bone. Physical appearance isn't everthing!
2007-01-01 00:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Improve your appearance and maybe start toning your body by working out and lifting weights and just be yourself. The right girl will come along. A girl that is willing to give you a chance and love you for you! Keep your head up. You're not the only one.
2007-01-01 00:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get something that will make you attractive to them. Generally in the world females have their own looks to attract males. Males, on the other hand, have to use their resources to attract females.
In other words, you need a really expensive imported car that goes really fast.
2007-01-01 00:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by AH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the smart girls, they may not be good looking, but that won't matter in the future. and make sure your no being to picky, sometimes you can do that and not even realize it.when you go to school, look for the girl who answers alot of qeustions and get to know them better.
or, you can trying going for any type of girls with this plan:get them candy,flowers or something nice.any decient girl would love theese and would be won over.
well,thats all i have to say, break a leg!
2007-01-01 00:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a stylist ..they can give you a new wardrobe and hair style etc or or go to a friend that girls think are attractive and ask for tips clothes can really change how attractive you are...also..its not all about looks u will find a girl that like u for who u are....Good Luck
2007-01-01 00:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try a different look, try some nice cologne, change your hair. But the girl who really likes you will love u just the way you are.
2007-01-01 00:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by LD82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋