ok i have been with this guy for 2 years today and he lately has had a lot of anger with me what am i doing wrong and why does he like to hit me when he gets mad? i love him do dealth but i dont know what to do plz help me i need some help
2006-12-31 16:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by lil kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, don't put up with it at all. Beating you up is not manly, it's cowardly. He needs his butt kicked a couple times real good. You need to leave this ****** immediately. Now it's punching. He may kill you. Leave him and tell him he needs help and until he controls his anger you aren't going to have anything to do with him It's called "tough love" but it has to be done!
2006-12-31 16:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my ex and it hard because you have to decide for yourself what you need to do. All I can say is dont take it. You need to tell him that you arent going to take that from him anymore that you deserve better than that. Get out before things get worse and he really hurts you physically because take it from someone who knows... it can get worse. My ex caused me to lose my unborn baby... He also put me in the hospital and I still forgave him.... how much are you going to take??? my husband also has a few words to say about that situation...
hey, im really sorry that you have to go through something as physically and emotionally painful as that but heres what i say.....
next time he gets mad and starts hitting you... kill the bastard and get it over with. you wont go to jail or anything because it will have been self defense. just take a good sized frying pan and kill that mother fu**er. if you leave him and he gets mad enough at you for doing so ... he may turn into the person that says "well if i cant have her then nobody will" and that could cause more harm than good. if you have brothers or if you tell your father im sure they wont let him ever hurt you again. wheneveer i hear of this situation my blood boils and my scalp starts tingling because what he is dong to you will damage you for the rest of your life. it will make you not be able to trust and trust is the key in any relationship... therefore... your relationships in the future will suffer from what he is doin to you. if you dont wanna kill his *** then make sure you have some good strong men around you when you leave his *** because those are the only options you have. be strong and keep your head up but you deserve better.
2007-01-01 00:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do is don't let him hit you any longer!!! That is important. Whatever reason he is angry, gives him, nor anyone else to hit you. Please leave, and stay away, until he controls the physical abuse. You don't have to be doing anything wrong with that type of person. They just take it out on whoever is closest. Please take care of yourself and get away.
2007-01-01 00:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him arrested and file a TRO at the court...that way if it escalates the police will have a prearranged suspect with legal verification of his activities a TRO is a Temporary Restraining Order..a legal order for him to stay away from you...
2007-01-01 01:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like to me u are getting urself in one of those abuseive realationship....do u now y he been getting madd lately maybe tlk to him....but sooner or later u gonna need to get out of the relationship n move on {{luv hurts}}
2007-01-01 00:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by TiiARA AKA TE3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get away from him as quick as you can. That has happened to a few of my friends and it never gets better they always say it wont happen again but it always does.
2007-01-01 00:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mac H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him pronto. he's bad news and weak or he wouldn't hit a girl or woman
2007-01-01 00:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him fast
2007-01-01 00:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by sarge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs the help. you need to leave his azz.
2007-01-01 00:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by honeybear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋