Just wondering really wht drives a man to cheat? id like answers off men please but any women that has been cheated on and no the reasons please tell me, why do they cheat, what would it take for them not to cheat, even men who love the girls to death still cheat!! I just dont get it, even when ive gone off my boyfriends I never cheated... I finished with them! please tell me
2006-12-31 16:05:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a woman, but I think like a man,and I make love as a woman. Some men likes to try variety, hmmm.. variety meats.pardon moa,a woman must use her intelligent to deal with a man so he won't cheat, >>>neat,clean smelling good appearance, sexy ,sweet,kind ,caring, loving,sensous,house is super clean, his clothes are laundered and press, babies should not be bawling in front of him. ( I am already tired I think I would rather be a nun).I don't think men would tell you these things.
2006-12-31 16:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't ever cheated but but the opportunity was there if I chose to.I was propositioned a few times by a ex sister in law and a woman that worked in the office of a shop that I manage.Both woman made it very clear that they wanted more than they were getting at home.The ex sister in law knew how I treated my wife and she wanted someone to treat her the same way.She told me that she needed to be held and talked to.This made family functions somewhat uncomfortable.I finally had to tell the ex sis to leave me alone and talk to hear husband.As for the woman at work she cornered me in the break room and gave me her number and a key to her brothers club house.It took awhile to make her understand that I was happy with my home life and I didn't want to risk my family.I never pursued either woman and I'm proud I didn't.I also chose to tell my wife at the time that her sister in law was hitting on me.
Its kind of ironic this happened 11 and 15 years ago.I was divorced 6 years ago because my ex wife cheated on me.
After finding out what she did I felt even more proud for not cheating when I had the chance.
2007-01-01 00:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat? I assume you mean cheating on a marriage as other relationships are not really viable platforms for real commitments! You may hear, they are getting something elsewhere you are not giving... That is childish! Many men, and even women, who have been dating and having intercourse with their dates, have a problem committing. It is addicting and this is now being brought out. We know most men do not cheat in marriage and most women do not. But those who have their way easily with women may cheat as they miss the variety! In the Bible, even, a Prophet married a prostitute and she continued in her work after the marriage. We think she finally was delifvered from that lifestyle, but....it did last years after the marriage! God was showing the Prophet how Israel treated Him! But as Jesus knew that the women had many relationships with men, so does God know about us... Marriage is a GODLY commitment to another and to God and those who cheat will answer to God.. it is His promise...It is the only OTHER blood covenant in this life. Christ is the other blood commitment given from God.
2007-01-01 00:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women. Women make us cheat. Chances are the woman we're cheating with is doing the same. What makes women cheat? Personnally if I am with a woman that I know in my heart and soul loves me and I can trust not to cheat and of course I love her (scary thing to let happen these days) I would never take the chance to mess that up. Love is hard to find. Plenty of lust.
2007-01-01 11:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women let them get by with it. The "other women" is too stupid to realize they're being used. I had a boyfriend that cheated on me. When I found out, I beat the crap out of him. I told her he'd cheat on her too. When he cheated on her, I made sure I laughed at her-and she knew it. Then I realized he was never good enough for me anyway.
2007-01-01 00:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer: some men and women are cheaters anyway,does not matter if they have a happy marriage or not.Others men and women,when have problems in their marriages,never try to face or solve those problems. Instead to solve their problems,they escape of the marriage: cheating.
2007-01-01 00:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not give up hope..I am a single guy, and have NEVER EVER cheated...ever! There was lots of oppurtunites, but I never fell weak! My dad has been a great role model for me,he loves my mother, married for almost 40 yrs.I think guys that cheat have low self esteem,lack of pride/dignity/respect for themselves and woman, and most likely they have not had a positive male role model teach them how to be respectful. Do not give up..there are good guys out there like..ME! :D best wishes
2007-01-01 00:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tom H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i'll try hun, first your correct about even men who truly love there wifes will cheat. to get straight to the point....ok we Men see a hot looking women walking down a street we Look first just Because shes hot looking but then there is the I bet shes hot in the sack, I'de love to try somthing New!
Hell you may fulfill that desire once your done you say wow, that was amazing, but then it wasn't good enough to want to loose your gf/wife at home....so what do we do? we come back to Our bread & butter
2007-01-01 00:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's when a man feels less appreciated. Women get to comfortable, after they have a guy for awhile they feel he is their property and if he leaves, regardless of the reason, the world will look at him as a jerk and the woman a victim. Just treat the man how you want to be treated and the relationship will be fine.
2007-01-01 00:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hormones
2007-01-01 00:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by LD82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋