of 5 years who I love and care for so much..(yet is not my intellectual equal)
2006-12-31 15:39:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooh, people getting a little snippy from me saying 'he's not my intellectual equal' well, he's not! i've got to know that over 5 years!
2006-12-31 15:49:55 · update #1
and the fact is, i loved him, and love him, and intelligence doesn't come into that. but i've met someone that stimulates me more mentally, and I can't helo but see the difference, **** you're so judgemental! are you all so ******* perfect??
2006-12-31 15:51:39 · update #2
the only person who can answer this is yourself.Your bf should be your perfect match.He obviously isn't, so there is something wrong. go with your heart, good luck!
2006-12-31 21:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 some !
2007-01-01 00:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your b/f down nicely and go with einstein if he is THAT intelligent then-your b/f deserves much better than you. How are you going to feel six months down the line if einstein IS NOT the perfect match that you thought he was in the first place huh?-not using our intellect very well on this one are we deary! Good answer from "that guy".
2007-01-01 05:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like you are alredy cheating on the boyfriend but you can always read a book for intellectual stimulation...I would take love and devotion anytime
2006-12-31 23:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by mekeygabriel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love and care for him so much, how can you ask? you've been with this guy for 5 years? what did you do about his lack of intelligence all these years? when something new comes along it usually does look better than what we have now. but a lot of times the new isn't as good as it looks.
2006-12-31 23:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not your intellectual equal? Jeez, not everyone I date is doing the Ph.D. route but I don't dump on people just b/c they aren't doing that with their lives. I stayed with a girl for 5 years even though she wasn't my "intellectual equal" b/c to me I didn't care about that, and she pulled the same crap you did. I hope he wises up and dumps you before you can decide and ruin his life.
2006-12-31 23:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Though,statistically, money is the principal cause of all divorce. Tell your boyfriend about your perfectly match guy and tell your fantasy guy about your 5 yr. romantic boyfriend. Mention also about marriage. Then decide based on money. Assuming that you are now looking into getting married.
2007-01-01 01:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by 64bit upgrader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you not just be friends with the new guy? Do you have to hurt the man you claim to love? Sounds like you are fantasizing, and in dangerous territory.
2006-12-31 23:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Q tells me you want to play the field. Tell your bf you want to date others, even if you don't end up dating this new man, because if you're looking elsewhere, you've got doubts about your bf.
2006-12-31 23:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks to me like you dont care with who your with! have both???
No, come to france, I live here, and those two insignificant fellers dont.
If you cant decide, babes, get rid of both, coz when one is in love for real, its so f****ing clear, there's no need to ask a question like that.
you want fun? or stability? ... or adventure?
2007-01-01 01:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by eurobuskers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋