im 13, normally built all my friends have some and, some kissed, and people at my school in 7 grade kiss. even 6th graders have them, younger then that too.. in high school ill be all changed then ill she whos has the last laugh. people call me ugly behind my back, i hear them too. they call me black, and gay like in 6th grade. i hate my school. why is why i dont want to go to my local high school
2006-12-31 14:52:41 · 17 answers · asked by save an egg crack, a smile 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not gay this girl started a rumor
2006-12-31 14:57:19 · update #1
im in 7th grade, im 13 also. Don't feel bad about it!! I know how you feel, like all my friends have had bf's and everything. IM not ALLOWED to date. I've learned to be happy single and not be pressured by all the coupled off pairs in school.
GUYS WILL COME ALONG. I got asked out for the first time ever this year by a guy i THOUGHT was my friend...but he thought of me a liiittle bit differently.
Just make good friends with guys!! let them see your true personality, i mean, just be friends and then you can meet their friends (who might be interested)
As for the people who call you ugly, ignore them, they have no lifes and even tho their suposedly 'popular' why cant they find something 'cooler' to talk about. Just be crazy and have fun DOT caer what other people think of you and express yourself, and you need to have some good friends behind ya all the way!
like I said dont focus on getting a bf, but makign lots and lots of friends , boys and girls alike!!
please e-mail me! If you have any specific questions!!
( mikhaelah_joy@yahoo.com)
Good luck and god bless!
~Mickey
p.s. No worries about high school , im quoting directly form my 18 year old brother " man, middle school is ****ing brutal. But highschool is okay socially, becuase every1 matures and no1 cares about the childish pranks, every1 is too mature to make fun of other people."
( but he said the HARD part about highschool is that some of your friends that you've known for years and have a great deal of power on yuo could start doign drugs and pressure you into it too , you do it cuz you dont wanna lose your good old freind!! The HARD part of it is walking away from your friends and controlling yourself....lol, wow, i learn a lot of thigns from my brutha' love him ^_^)
2006-12-31 15:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm 13 too and i don't have a bf .bf aren't even supposed to be in my mind (that's what my mom said ) every where u go u c a cute boi or when u go 2 the movies and u c girls and bois walkin 2 gether don't worry that will be u in a few years worry bout gettin your education and 4 all those friends of yours that r kissin and stuff like that don't hang wit them becuz in a few years you re gonna c them pregnant or already with children and there gonna be on the side of the road askin u 4 money and stuff but anywayz just enjoy it now becuz when u start datin its gonna be hard cuz its gonna be make ups and break ups so enjoy it while were young and that whole boyfriend thing will come later on !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-31 23:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chris breezy and Ashanti 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i know it will be hard for you to believe what i am going to say but in middle school all kinds of kids make fun of each other. I remember when i was in middle school i used to be called some horrible names and i felt so bad, but i am now 25 and realize that is all childish behavior. As for the boyfriend dont rush it. You are still so young and you should be worrying about getting out of school not boys. All your little friends that are boy crazy and have boyfriends will probably start having sex early and become a pregnant on welfare teenager. So dont worry about that girl! Your time will come. Just enjoy your teenage years in middle school and high school. Those years will never come again in your life!
2006-12-31 22:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tinkz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself. You should show people who you are and don't give a damn about people who don't like you. Its the people who will like you for who you are that matter. Sure everything seems bad now but you don't need a boyfriend to be happy and having one wont make you happy. Only you can make yourself happy. School isn't going to matter once you have grown up. Sometimes the most beautiful and intelligent adults have a terrible time at high school. But if you try and change who you are to please people who don't deserve you then you will just end up unhappy and unsure of who you really are. Trust me on this one. You will find someone to love you, when you are old enough, and they will know how beautiful you are. Don't think that high school it IT. There is so much more to life.
2006-12-31 23:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also 13 and i don't have a boyfriend. If you think about it, why would you, you should not want someone calling you constently. You should just get a bunch of new friends and hang out with them. I personalywould like to be african-american, I always thought they were really pretty and that no matter what they wear or what they look like, they have always seemed really cool to me. As for the gay part, they enjoy saying that because it gets to you, don't let it and they'll stop.
2006-12-31 23:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by jasminemma25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with "Mickey"...I'm 14 and of course...being teenagers...we are going to like other guys...we cant help it...But its what we do about those crushes that make a difference. I know it seems like the totally "in" thing to do: flirt and date...but most likely...youre life and feelings about people are going to be TOTALLY different in a matter of a few months. And the people who think you're ugly, need to get themselves some lives and stop worrying about you and look at their own selves. They also need to focus on the fact that their parents dont send them to school to spread stupid rumors and stab people in the back..I have a small group of people i really trust..and people who arent fake that im friends with and dont worry about all the other girls who only worry about who their dating and what they've supposedly done. And dont even worry because those are probably the exact ones you'll see in a few years at a drive through window, making minimum wage, dating every guy that'll take their sorry butts and totally not happy. Remember, this situation is temporary, you'll make it through. Times get tough but you'll come out stronger, especially if you don't give and do what everyone else is doing. Just be yourself, I know its hard but you'll be glad you did...hope it works out!!!
2006-12-31 23:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13!?!?! Sweetie, you have plenty of time for a boyfriend. Focus on getting through school and try not to let the other kids get you down. Trust me, you'll have a boyfriend soon enough in a few years.
2006-12-31 22:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by my2cents4ya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up, you got it right--time is the great equalizer, and your time will come, little sister!
Until then, just take it one day at a time, and try to not let too much get to you. Join an organization at school, or the YMCA or something. or take up a musical instrument, or a sport. Do something YOU enjoy!
2006-12-31 22:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, I'm 13, I don't have a boyfriend, get over it, get good grades, go to collage, and get a husband. That's what my dad said, it doesn't really matter right now.
2006-12-31 22:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Happy:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I thought I was ugly too. Everybody has a perfect match out there. My boyfriend (now my ex) told me that everybody says I'm beautiful, but I never knew it. Then, we broke up, because "I got annoying".
2006-12-31 22:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋