i really like this guy and i think he likes me! but i dont no rather to tell him or just play it cool
2006-12-31 14:41:07 · 14 answers · asked by allexcheer247 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you start playing games now you will probably form habits and you will end up as a Player. If this is what you want, take acting lessons.
If you expect to form real adult relationships then learn to express your ideas and emotions openly and honestly. The sooner you learn this the better. Communication is the key to any great relationship including friendship.
2006-12-31 15:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 25⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Mickey about playing it cool. Some guys like it when the girl chase but most would rather she not chase because then it seems she's a pest. And the last thing u want to be to a guy u really like is a pest.
2006-12-31 14:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends: if you want a short spontaneous relationship that's fun for a while but wont really last then flirt, play hard to get, and just basically play games. He might get interested and make his move.
If you want a more long lasting relationship, then just be mature and tell him how you feel, be kinda direct and just say you care about him.
but there's another question: if your kinda young or just getting into relationships, dating, etc. then I suggest just flirting and getting used to it all, play it cool and learn how most guys are(you might not be too happy about that).
If your older or if your very used to relationships then you could try being direct.
2006-12-31 21:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by pizza87760 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off you have to find out whether he likes you for sure or not. don't come out and tell him that you like him in fear of him not liking you cause that can lead to depression. If you feel confident enuff that you want to let him know then i say go for it. If you aren't sure you can possibly change your look, but don't change enuff to where you are not your true self. he will then like you for someone that you are not and/or ever were. I say just let it go with the flow. Take a giant leap, and give it a shot. Maybe you'll get lucky and i wish you luck. have fun in finding out...it'll be a blast!!!
2006-12-31 14:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by !!Thinkin of him!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways of telling without actually speaking it! First, you have to be in his sight. You can't be too pushy. But flirt. That's the fun part is the flirting. Gotta make the eye contact and if he holds it with you, eventually he will make his move. Or, you can just tell him. I would flirt first.
2006-12-31 14:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, go up to the guy, i mean it. Give him a smile and start telling him that you think that he is a really nice guy and that it would be great to go out together someplace sometime. I am sure you will succeed!! Let me know how it went!
2007-01-01 11:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Skiru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeslty I say play hard to get. It always works for me. But if you think he likes you..just wait and time will tell.
2006-12-31 17:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by claireeee (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-27 20:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him chase you but flirt like crazy
2006-12-31 14:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by atbkkj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has the same problem!
ask someone to ask him to see if he likes you for sure
then ask him out
your never gonna be happy waiting for him to eventually ask you out
if he doesnt like you the way you like him...just chill and be friends with him
just because he doesnt want to go out with you doesnt mean you cant be friends!
good luck!
2006-12-31 14:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by me, myself, and i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋