i found out that im an accident on christmas and now im depressed all the time... is drinking and getting high a good way to deal with it.
2006-12-31 14:32:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-12-31 14:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean your birth was an accident? not sure what you meant, but my daughter's conception was an accident and I tell her all the time that it was the best accident I ever had. Not so much an accident as a wonderful surprise. I think you are using this new information as an excuse to drink and get high, so stop it right now and go do something constructive. I mean it now,
2006-12-31 14:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God never makes accidents. Just because your parents didn't plan your conception doesn't mean God didn't plan you. I am sure your parents Love you. If you weren't here, they would actually miss you. I bet they couldn't imagine life without you. Half of us are not really planned. We are pleasant surprises! You should celebrate that you were blessed to be put on this Earth for some special reason. Do not blow it by being depressed and abusing your body. Turn it around and look at the positive side of things. If you weren't here, you would have never have met....... and your best friend would have never have..............
God has plans for you. Always do the best you can. Never look at the negative side as that just makes you look down. Always try to see the positive side of things. There always is a positive side if you look.
2007-01-01 05:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not a good way to deal with it at all. I know how it feels to feel like you don't even belong here. I chose to handle my depression by drinking and doin drugs and i ended up with heart disease and cirrhosis of the liver. I regret ever drinking and taking drugs...alcoholism is in my blood and alcohol is addicting enough as it is for anyone. It's so hard to quit drugs and alcohol...your best bet is to never do either. Itll be a huge regret. Just because they said that doesnt mean you are a mistake at all..they still love you.
2006-12-31 14:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by JMan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter how you were conceived, you were - the main thing is how you have been treated all your life. Why be depressed because your parents were not "trying" to have a baby - probably 90% of the people in the world are "accidents", and no alcohol and drugs will solve nothing. Deal with it.
2006-12-31 14:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are no accidents everything happens for a reason. stop thinking about it in a negative way, life is positive.think about all the people in the world that cant have kids.i wasn't planned an I'm sure not an accident. don't drink an get high talk to someone about your feelings.
2006-12-31 14:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey... don't be depressed, my friend found out she was an accident on her birthday, but she got over it. Also don't EVER drink and get high to make the pain stop. go to your close friends...
2006-12-31 14:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Happy:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! no its not. i was told that i too was an accident when i was 10 years old. all i could do was cry. however now that i am older i came to realize that eventhough i wasnt wanted, eventhough they tried to kill me b4 i was born i am a blessing to many people. Look in your life, look at all who love you and all that you have achieved when you have then you can say that eventhough they didnt want me i have done excellent. show them that you can achieve the great things in life. you need to make them regret that they ever thought of you as an accident. just trust God and he will help you through this. i know that they r sorry they ever called me an accident and i know you can do it too.
2006-12-31 14:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by babyblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how many unplanned pregnancies there are? Just because you weren't planned, doesn't mean you aren't loved. You're not an accident, you were a surprise!
2006-12-31 14:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way! you could kill yourself or hurt someone else......its probably tough but i know people who have it a lot worse, some whos parents abandon them, some who dont even know their parents, you should think about how lucky you are, sometimes the most desired and wonderful things in life are the things that you didnt expect to happen, they kept you, they most likely love you, so just be happy, so what.....you were a surprise, not all surprises are bad.
2006-12-31 14:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by courtney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutley not, whats the big deal, so u werent planned some of the best of us happen that way =] whats it matter if u planned or not, ur here now, dont fret about it live ur life to the fullest
2006-12-31 14:37:04 · answer #11 · answered by pandabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋