i have someone who broke my heart, he was a player, and hurt me a lot. i feel so messed up right now, im constantly thinking about him and missing him strangely and hes a player and doesnt give a sh!t. he acts all casual about it and it hurts me that he didnt care 4 me. is it a good idea 2 go and yell at him and try and make him feel guilty or go thru this pain and what it seems like forever until it goes away. i tried moving on i cant trust no one im afraid 2 be hurt again, he was the first guy i ever liked so maybe thats why im so hurt by it....ugh worst way 2 end the year. and ill probably feel the same opening the year too.
2006-12-31 14:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by onyxhotel28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the last time i saw him was nov 23rd. its been a little over a month! the first two weeks i didnt think of it and i was like okay im ready 2 move on but once i did and found new ppl i felt such tension and couldnt concentarte on them and all feelings of the guy just came back randomly and r taking control!its just tooo much
2006-12-31 14:17:17 · update #1
Well the best thing is to walk away IMO. If you yell and show that much emotion then they will know that they hurt you.
Never give him that satisfaction of knowing. But in order for it to work you can't be talking to him anymore. It will make him wonder for the rest of his life why you didn't cause a rawckus because he would be expecting that.
2006-12-31 14:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Neea_Gastino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans need an outlet for their emotional energy. We cry, rant, yell, punch and run. Yelling at your boyfriend will just give him justification to have broken it off. But you need some way to blow off this break up steam. Run, swim, clean house. Something with a lot of energy expended. It works!
2006-12-31 22:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yelling at him is not going to solve the problem...i fhe doesn't care now, he's not going to care if you yell at him. If he's a player you deserve better anyways. Hang in there and the right guy for you will make his way into your life one way or another.
2006-12-31 22:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by bunnie17479 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need not yell or take out your frustration and disappointment of the heartbreak on him, try screaming out your negative feelings at some desolate spot preferably on some cliff over the pacific ocean.........it works and just get on with your life, you will sure to come across a soulmate which is more compatible and you will not regret it.
2006-12-31 22:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by MoMo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only embarassing yourself. Too bad its too late for you to maintain your dignity and gain the upper hand by stating that you're glad he understood the nature of the relationship and appreciated him letting you use him until you found someone better. Move on...and remember what I told you for the next player you hook up with.
2006-12-31 22:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to get your feelings out to them,but then you do have to let it go or it will eat you up for a long time.
2006-12-31 22:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yelling at him won't accomplish anything. The best revenge is to live on happily without him, showing him that you don't need him in your life.
2006-12-31 22:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
somebody out there is feelin ur pain, one way or the other, just keep ur head up, nd get ready for da new year, proud nd single
2006-12-31 22:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S ALWAYS HARD WITH THE FIRST ONE. DON'T YELL. IT WON'T MAKE ANYTHING BETTER. JUST TRY TO THINK OF THIS AS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. YOU'LL FIND ANOTHER.
2006-12-31 22:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh it off and play it cool. He'll think you weren't into him at all.
2006-12-31 22:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋