2006-12-31 13:46:59 · 13 answers · asked by Shnooks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
work on your self esteem. once you realize youre worth more than youre settling for you'll stop being desperate
2006-12-31 13:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need confidence. The only reason for not having confidence is not believing in yourself. You are a special person with special capabilities. I realize I have no idea who or what you are, but the thing about us humanbeings, we are a powerful existence. I mean, we were made in the image of God.
Things that cause lack of confidence is being aroudn the worng crowd. Try to find people that make you feel good about yourself. I'll bet you have a special friend that lights you up to be around them. Call them, go to them, whatever it takes. Open your heart to them and let them know how you feel. It's a risk in a safe environment. Your friend will be honest with you and let you know why you should love yourself more than you do. If you can't think of someone that you consider that close, then you might want to consider finding one.
I also suggest getting a hobby . . . which is where you will usually find a great friend.
2006-12-31 13:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide to stop. You choose how you feel. Sometimes it's easier to give in to negative emotions & let them drag you down. But you can choose to make the effort to be happy. Think positive. Love yourself. Do things that you enjoy. Appreciate the little things in life. It is a beautiful world. Find the beauty that is out there. Life isn't so bad. It can be joyous if you let it be.
Take care.
(You're not alone. A lot of us feel just like you! Just try to make the best of the situation you're in, whatever it is & know that there are people surviving much worse. People that would look at you with envy & say how lucky you are to have what you do.)
Peace out.
2006-12-31 13:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by amp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the suggestion to find someone who truly is desperate (homeless, loveless, dying) and help them.
Besides that, it is a wonderful time of the year to take stock... to write down ALL of your blessings, all of the things that are working in your life. You'll be amazed. Write them down and then repeat them out loud. Then, give thanks. Do this every morning for the first week in January and see if the sense of desperation starts to recede.
"Feeling so desperate" could also be code for "feeling so anxious". My husband and I (and thousands of other people all over the world) have learned the easy to apply energy therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique and when we face times of high anxiety, fearfulness, or the like, we simply 'tap it away'. Really! Download the free "Get Started Package" at http://tinyurl.com/yh5zhu, or if you want to dive in right away by purchasing the inexpensive instructional DVDs go to http://tinyurl.com/ycwle8
Have a really Happy Year!
2006-12-31 13:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That just depends on what you are feeling desperate about if it a man then you need to know that a man dont make a woman feel better inside. I seen a lot of cases where the girl dont care about herself or is so worried about getting someone that it is unatractive for men because they dont care because you dont
good luck
2006-12-31 13:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by Robin t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marinda : well you can stop being "Desperate"
by following these 4 ideas!
1talk with parents
2 show happyness from yourself
3 take it easy &don't stress out
4 help others that needs it see http://www.youthsupportgroups.com
2006-12-31 14:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to the movies,the mall,jogg,spend time with family,call your mother, or and old friend from highschool and catch up and get a bite to eat.Desperate is something us women should never be god made us beautiful inside and out and he definelty made us eunique and diffrent.Walk around wit your head up not down.Desperate is a sign of weakness and you never want to seem week in the eyes of man.You wanna seem strong,driven,motivated. And last but not least DONT HAVE TIME 4 BS!!!!!
Girl just do these tings and i swear you'll be having to keep them off you and double booking dates.
2006-12-31 13:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by rhotgurl1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Miranda, can you give a little more info about "desparate?" Desperate for what? Sex, friends, company? Money?
2006-12-31 13:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mysteri O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By forgeting whats making you despreate. Try to control yourself and be paitent. Just belevie in your self and everthing will work out fine :)
2006-12-31 13:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a new years resolution to help people who really are. You will feel useful, and it will put your problems in perspective.
2006-12-31 13:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋