Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a wile. We live in two diffrent staes so its not like i can tell if he is cheating. We used to talk alot but now we dont talk as much. When he does come online he tells me stuff that gets me really mad, But then he doesnt understand. I tell him that if he ever likes another girl or wants to brake up to tell me, But he always says i wont tell you because its not going to happen. Most of my friends say to give him his sapce, But when i do i always feel like he is with or talking to another girl. He can get moody sometimes but other times when we do talk its grate. Am i just being an overprotective girlfriend or is he losing intrest in me?
2006-12-31 13:36:24 · 11 answers · asked by dntsaygoodbye44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes not talking to you as much, something might be going on
2006-12-31 13:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a long distance relationship. these are always problematic. communication always drops off because there is no body-language to convey how people feel when they say things. this might be what is missing. that and if you don't trust him why do you want to maintain this relationship, especially a long distance one? you must care a great deal to attempt a long distance relationship, so... does he trust you, he must care as well to continue this. or the other possibility, like most long-distance relationships you may grow too far apart and never reconnect the way you once did. you have a great new year.
2006-12-31 13:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by dj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like he's loosing interest. Best way to find out is to give him some space.
Guys are naturally semi-predatory. They like to chase their girls- that's why it's not usually the "easy" girls in high school that get married first.... Make him work for the time he spends with you, make him put forth a little effort... and if he doesn't put forth the effort, find another guy.
Live your life, enjoy it, have fun, and if he really wants to be a part of your life, he'll make sure he is.
2006-12-31 13:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence may make the heart grow fonder, but distance divides devotion. Do your own thing and let himm do his. If it's meant to be, it will be. Trust me. I've been married for 20 years to a man i met who lived in another state when we met, then was stationed in Germany, then moved to Colorado after the service. We each had other live-in "loves" over the years, but God led us back to each other. Good luck.
2006-12-31 13:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST YOUR GUTS! What do they tell you? Ask him point blank? Tell him it's okay if he is, but you deserve to know so you can get on with your life, and you just want for both of you to be happy! Trust your instincts...when he doesn't talk so much, maybe things are going good elsewhere, and when their not, he is all old times with you. Your smart, you probably already know the answer to your question...trust your guts...good luck!
2006-12-31 13:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mysteri O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should be seeing other people. You live in two different states and are too young anyway to be stuck with one person. Don't worry about him seeing other girls. See other guys too. It is more or less a teenage online relationship which is ridiculous.
2006-12-31 13:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to spend as much time with you or talking to you as he used to, the message is pretty clear--and it's not one you want is it?
2006-12-31 13:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be too safe so why don't you put a condom over your head and then you'll know your really same.
2006-12-31 13:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is moody he may be pregnant. :o
2006-12-31 13:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another bf
2006-12-31 13:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mailyahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋