We seemed to hit it off pretty well.. but then I had to go away and we broke contact for a bit. Over the summer we started talking againg but I was in a relationship with someone so nothing pursued farther.... well, its almost the new year and I was invited to his place with a couple of friends last night, (and things btw me and my man are kinda rocky) regardless i put all that aside and had a great time. we sat up and talked for a very long time last night( we were drinking but neither of us was drunk) and we kissed... i feel horrible because its cheating, and ive never done that, but why am i doing that... is that me saying its time to move on? even if its not with this guy or was i just wondering... it was hard because as i walked through the door and saw him i kinda got an instant crush on him, i find him very cute and such a big teddy bear. but because of the kiss, i cant tell if he likes me... what should i do... ive been leaning towards breaking up with the bf since b4 this.
2006-12-31 13:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by GeT_uR_oWn_LiFe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and this guy knew eachother before... and it just felt good.. ive been thinking of ending it with the bf since before i met up with this guy... just to be clear
2006-12-31 13:41:08 · update #1
IM NOT A TEENAGER... gosh why do i get that alll the time... 21 here!
2006-12-31 13:43:33 · update #2
and yes i met this guy B4 my current bf...
2006-12-31 13:46:08 · update #3
i'm not an expert, but it seems to me that you still have pretty strong feelings for this guy. you're old enough to be responsible for the things that are happening in your life. ok, you kissed and now you're feeling bad. but you did have a choice not to do it, right? putting that aside. i think you should take one thing at a time. you have entered a commitment, a pact with another person and you should honor that pact by taking time and figuring everything out with your BF if your relationship is worth pursuing. and if both of you still have the same goals and aspirations go for it and then learn to let go of past passions and could've beens, but if not, then pursue what ever your heart feels you should do. because your own happiness is worth pursuing. but take one problem at a time...
2006-12-31 13:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you wanting to break up because you feel bad about what you did or because you just are over the relationship? You need to think long and hard about your current relationship and did the guy you were hanigng out with last night Know you have a boyfriend? If not then you betrayed both of them, if so.. what kind of a man kisses someone elses gf? Not a real one. Only you can decide what to do.. on your own!
2006-12-31 13:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cheated - Break up with your b/f - You aren't in love with him, if you were you wouldn't have put yourself into a situation where u kissed another man. Save the B/F the heartbreak, don't waste each others time any longer and move on - It's for the best
2006-12-31 13:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It was just a kiss. You are a teenager for Gods sake and you aren't married. This will happen to you many times in your life.
2006-12-31 13:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now to me you are making it to obvious it sem that since you met this new guy you really want to break up with your bf just try to go with the flow and see what happens.
2006-12-31 13:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would break up with him because its not fair to your boyfriend, and it sounds like you really like this other guy so take a chance and go for him
2006-12-31 13:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by gypsyfirefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
praise the lord & his kiss didn't tell you he likes you?
2006-12-31 13:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by RickeTy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋