im not fat but certainly not skinny, im about 5"10 and 210, i dont think im attractive. im trying to lose weght but its hard. its hard to meet guys, well guys who want a relationship, what should i do
2006-12-31 13:30:39 · 7 answers · asked by sexiblakass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, some men, do like and even fall in love and stay happily married to women that are not skinny, but have some weight. Please do not let anyone tell you otherwise.. A good man is there for you.. Lose weight for health reasons, and for yourself. It will show and you will smile and be happy. Do it for the right reasons. Join the YWCA.. or some Exercise club, check with your doctor, talk to a nutritionist, you can do it.. Good Luck.. Let me know how things are going.
2006-12-31 13:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be confident above all else. Not thinking you are attractive is more unattractive than weight! Dress nice, do your nails, have fun! Our culture can be so messed up in terms of ideal beauty. I have found that when it comes to actually getting together with someone for a relationship that weight doesn't matter as much. It matters more when guys are having their pornostar fantasties and want to hook up temporarily.
2006-12-31 21:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by mizchulita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be confident. It's how you feel about your body that matters. If you don't like it, change it. And believe it or not, there are many men who are attracted to women with a heavy set. I've seen it all the time.
2006-12-31 21:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mailyahoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong about the not fat part.
I can't see how so many people rationalize their weight. How can you not tell when you're fat?
2006-12-31 21:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by GG Alan Alda 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
from what I see yes
2006-12-31 21:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alcohol will help
2006-12-31 21:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Z 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
weight on there *** only
2006-12-31 21:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋