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im 18, a senior in HS and a cook at where i work. theres this girl at my job in a restaurant thats a server thats my age(18) too. i really like her. my friends and people that are close to them told me that shes bisexual and has girlfriends and boyfriends although she sometimes lies about having them. just 2 two days ago she went out of her way to talk to me and we ended up having a long conversation and learned ALOT about eachother. i catch her flirting with me. shes ethiopian and was born their but for the most part lived in the US. what should i do?

2006-12-31 13:06:26 · 17 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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well, make sure that you know that "a lot" are to words not one.
the ethiopian girl seems like a nice person, just to continue to get to know her. better that way
chin

2006-12-31 13:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try to get to know her a little bit better. Honesty and trust plays a major role in a relationship. During that long talk with her did her sexual preference come up? Is her being ethiopian a hinderance to you? What matters is what is on the inside of every person. The cover does not tell all. If you like this girl even after learning ALOT about each other then things will work out.

2006-12-31 13:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You've got a couple of things facing you that will be kinda tough. There is a difference in culture that can be quite a shock and the bi business may sound intriguing but you'd have to get used to the idea that you're not necessarily the central person in her life. If you can hack those problems, it's always nice to have someone impressed by you.

2006-12-31 13:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0 0

Well, I'm not sure what "you" should do, but I can't leave without giving you some advise. When I was around your age I had just about the same problem. I liked this guy, he was kind, caring, and just about the sweetest guy to strangers. He thought I was a bisexual, but I wasn't. He felt embarrassed about the whole thing. But, we decided to set our differences aside. He's been my best friend for 13 years.

2006-12-31 13:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Luke 2 · 0 0

in my view, you in basic terms nead to ask her out. Make gentle communication. pass the place she is going. If se likes the laptop and consistently sits on the samw one, pass there consistently and sit down by employing her. compliment her. tell her shes exceptionally. The ask her out. Hers a handbook.. WEEK a million: you would be attentive to her first and final call and you could have had a minimum of a million communication together with her. WEEK 2: you could have had 3 conversations together with her WEEK 4: you shoud have had 6 sonversations together with her and you could casually ask to hold out. WEEK 5: you would be attentive to her telephone type. WEEK 6: ASK HER OUT!

2016-10-06 06:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Try to be her friend, but if you are not bisexual, make that known from the start. Tell her to respect you also and not to flirt with you if you don't want her too.

2006-12-31 13:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Little Lady 1 · 0 0

I would not get involved romantically since there's a problem already. Be a good friend; I assume you are a man. Everyone needs friends; we cannot have too many.

2006-12-31 13:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by seblexie 3 · 0 0

i would say if she is flirting with you then she may like you. that may be just a rumor that she is bi. and you obviously like her because your asking this so try and see if dating would work out.
Good Luck!

2006-12-31 13:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by *Rayne* 1 · 0 0

Do Nothing continue on having your conversations & getting to know her & eventualy it will run its course if its meant to happen it will no rushing watch & observe & you will know when to do something it will just come naturaly you'll see.



Peter

2006-12-31 13:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by peterhlounsbury 3 · 0 0

If she gets around with that many peeps at her age.. beware... you may catch something you don't bargain for.

2006-12-31 13:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by goodolelady 2 · 0 0

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