A woman you really liked told you she wasn't ready for a relationship because she just got out of one. Then a month later she asked if you were seeing someone special, asked if she could call on a personal level and wanted to you to come to a work conference but said it wasn't like you could date because you live too far apart, what would you think she wanted? Would you travel to the conference to be with her?
2006-12-31 12:56:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants you, but wants assurance that you will be there for her in a long distance relationship.
2006-12-31 13:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by skipdip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to read between the lines with this stuff. I'd take her at her word. In other words, assume she doesn't "want to" date. If you want to go to the conference (meaning I guess if you enjoy her company), I'd go ahead and go, but you should not have expectations that it will be anything more than a companionship thing.
She may be having second thoughts about what she initially told you about not being "ready," but unless she comes out and says that, you really don't know. So don't make any other assumptions about what she wants or what she is trying to say.
2006-12-31 21:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My conclusion is that she doesn't know what she wants. "Personal level" would lead one to conclude she wants a friend and that'd be cool. But not date because you're too far apart? That doesn't compute very well. I'd go to the conference only if it would benefit me for work--or she was VERY intriguing and interesting.
2006-12-31 21:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl went to see if you i really interested she's testing you, it's like how long can you wait, if he love me he will wait till am reading for a relationship.
2006-12-31 21:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would travel. go for it. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-31 21:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants sex... GO AND GET YOURSELF SOME!!!
2006-12-31 21:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, girls do not like temporary things
2006-12-31 21:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋