We lived together and he basically moved in with her. This is not the first time he has cheated but he says "he has changed" should I believe that? Can people like that change. He calls me everyday and leaves voicemails telling me how much he loves me but when I ask him what he is up to he says it is none of my business if I dont want to be his girlfriend any more..
2006-12-31 12:54:31 · 10 answers · asked by wicked1too 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show him that you are better than him by saying "no"! Because if you say "yes" (and he probably expects that you will), he will think that you are an easy person to lay back on and that you will forgive too easily, thus inadvertently condoning what he has done! Please respect yourself and let him KNOW that by letting him know that you're not willing to work on a relationship that HE HIMSELF has NOT put the right effort on! He DOESN'T want to tell you what is going on with him, and it sure as hell YOUR business to know WHY he wants to be with YOU. So do this for yourself and no one else! His actions show how selfish he is, I hope you come out with a really good ending out of this mess he has put you in!!!
2006-12-31 13:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just can't afford the rent where he is now and needs free rent. Tell him to get lost or you are going to get a restraining order against him and do it if need be. Just because the thing with the other woman didn't work out doesn't mean he will move back in with you and quit trying someone else.
2006-12-31 13:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I don't know your age, but if you are over 21, I have to ask if anyone here can figure out why you have to ask this question.
I would have to be pretty desperate just to talk to him, let alone accept his phone calls every day.
2006-12-31 13:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it's your business... men don't change.. they just change their stripes.... if he'll do it to you once, he'll do it again.. he just realized he had a better deal with you and now he's wants that back... it may be lonesome temporarily, but I hope you have the courage to tell him to go fly a kite....
2006-12-31 13:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by goodolelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - don't get back with him. He's not good for you - and he WILL cheat again. Move on with your life and find someone who will treat you properly.
2006-12-31 12:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go!!!!!!!!! He don't love you if he cheated. He probably lonely because the other women dumped him. Only time will heal your wound. Good luck,
2006-12-31 13:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, dont be a loser. Dont you know whats happening? Him and his girl are having problems and he wants someone to run to so he can protect himself why totally screwing your over.
2006-12-31 12:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl please! He's about nothing but a couple of quick booty calls and when he gets in relationship mode again, he'll leave you alone. Don't take it personally.
2006-12-31 13:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO he is totally playing you. you are worth more than that. if he left you once he will leave you again.
2006-12-31 13:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't take him back,if he left you once he will do it again. tell him to take a hike
2006-12-31 12:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋