i saw him with his other girl kiss at the movies and that is why i have been sleeping with another guy. do u think that is r ight?
2006-12-31 12:46:34 · 63 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In some cases, yes.
2006-12-31 12:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sno-man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it right? Do you really have to ask? Maybe if he's cheating on you, you should just break up with him. Just a thought. And maybe seeing him kiss another girl gave you an excuse for sleeping around. I mean I wouldn't sleep with somebody else for revenge I would sleep with someone because I want to.. Dump the guy and move on. Also for the good of all man kind Stop sleeping around, before you procreate.
2006-12-31 12:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I understand this.
A guy you thought should be faithful to you was seen in public kissing another girl.
You didn't talk to him about it.
You didn't break up with him.
You didn't kiss another guy
You went and had sex with another guy - judging from what you say, more than once.
As far as I can tell, there is no relationship here either way, so you are free to sleep with as many different people as you want. You don't care about him - you don't care about the two of you together - and given the casual way you use sex as a revenge mechanism, sounds like you don't care much about yourself.
I don't think it is right, but there certainly seems to be no reason in your world why you shouldn't do it.
Just as an aside - in my world, and in the world of many people, sex and relationships are more important than that.
2006-12-31 12:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, don't take this the wrong way, but 2 wrongs don't make a right. First of all you should never come down to another person level, espeicially partners. what you have done speaks voulumes of who you are, now granted you were upset, hurt, and you wanted a quick get a away, well you got it. I will still use other methods to release frustration. Remember you self worth is price less.
2006-12-31 12:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by rodeol2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. But in your case it doesn't matter if you sleep with another guy because you saw him cheating on you so he doesn't need to know if your cheating on him. Because he thinks that you don't know that he's cheating on you.
2006-12-31 12:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is difficult to say if it is wrong, you both might be doing right in the context of your living and beliefs, however, there are people who belive that living without marriage is wrong,, and of course cheating is unheard of and certainly wrong, perhaps you should move on, or maybe not see anyone at all for awhile,
Speaking of wrong or right, could people asertain that you do not know wrong from right, with the question you have asked? thereby revealing a certain amount of ignorance? peace and love and have a happy healthy newyear
2006-12-31 12:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by chinpingmei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!! Haven't you ever heard the saying, 'two wrongs, don't make a right' ? If he was cheating, you should've confronted him, right then. Told him how it made you feel and deal w/ it. Now you are just as morally wrong as he is, if not even more so. Chances are you won't be able to fix it now.
2006-12-31 12:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a question of right or wrong, your relationship will never be the same. Its over. Either he wanted out or didn't care which makes him bad news anyway, or you just did something so hurtful that you don't care for him as much as you thought you did. Either way this relationship is going nowhere.
2006-12-31 12:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that the easiest way, it satisfies for a time. But for me, i never believe two wrongs makes a right. Yu'll oon find out why. For the mean time, put all behind you and try to move on. Add theat exra stregth in you to move on. A lot lies ahead of you in2007. Cheer up
2006-12-31 12:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs do not make it right. Be yourself at all times. The one that cheats is only cheating himself or herself. If you do not believe this, than time will reaffirm this. Once a cheater is always a cheater. People cheat because they do not love you.
2006-12-31 12:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! Break up with him! Two wrongs don't make a right. If he's cheating on you you should definitely move on. You can do much better. Don't lower yourself to his standards by doing the same thing back to him.
2006-12-31 12:49:12 · answer #11 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋