I was at the movies with some of my friends. and i saw my boyfriend with my best friend, kissing. I still can't get over what i saw what should i do?
2006-12-31 12:34:07 · 54 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a new boyfriend and a new best friend. They don't deserve you. If your display name is true, you should have no problem finding a new boyfriend. Good luck sweetie!
2006-12-31 12:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Heather <33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me not long ago... Not with my best friend, but my boyfriend cheated on me. I couldn´t even talk to him for weeks.. Then, we started talking again.. I even agreed to give him another chance. It didn´t work. Maybe I should have taken more time to think of what had happened. The truth is, tell him what you saw, and tell him you need time to think. AND THINK... Personally, I don´t think it´s wrothy keep trying a relationship with someone that doesn´t respect you. But I know that now. After I learned from my own mistake.When you talk to him, ask why he did it, why what was going on his mind... I don´t know your relationship, but something must have been wrong..either with him or both of you..
As for your friend, she is not worthy your trust. There´s no excuse in this world for the betrayl.I would listen to her, but wouldn´t get back to being best friends... She doesn´t deserve your trust!
Keeping you in my thoughts... Good luck!!!
2006-12-31 12:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember....you deserve ONLY the best and if you have someone that is treating you anything less than that he is enough right for you. You need to drop him like a hot stinky potato and never look back, he doesn't deserve a 2nd thought or glance.
My big rules are you will NEVER cheat on me or beat on me, no excuses or explanations will make a difference. Good luck to you and yours....and make 2007 a year where you learn to not accept anything less than you deserve! Happy New Year!
:-)
2006-12-31 12:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by smiliemommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are but dont make him happy by hurting your self,. You know how our human ego works/ We become happy or feel powerful when ever we realise some one feels down or is over powered by us.
He knows you are hurt and dont think he'll sincerely say, "honey ia msorry, ive now seen the light, I am repented". He is 99% more likely to do it again. Just forget about him and dont call him again.
Its hard to do if you love him so much. But hei girl, thats the truth, its hard, go out with your girl friends, read some books, forget about him. Not easy but start from somewhere.
Ever heard your own mama or auntie or bigger sister or any older woman laugh over how crazily they were in love with the worng guy... only to reaslie much later when hes fooled them 100th times. Please move on love, better opportunites are waiting for you out there,. Take care and Happy New year.
2006-12-31 12:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend and forget to break up with ur soon to be old one and let him catch u two kissing or doin something holding hands and make him very mad or do something with his best friend or u could not take my advice and take the peoples before my advice and just dump them both but i like mine better!! Your choice!!!
2006-12-31 12:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep yourself busy, don't try to listen to sad songs, this will only remind you of him. If he says he is sorry, and keeps asking for your forgiveness, then maybe you should listen to him. Everybody makes mistakes once in a life time. But don't forgive him only because you want to Get back together with him, of just to ge this problem off your back. Do whatever it takes, cry your heart out. Wright his name everywhere, But the most impotent thing is to try not to think about him that much. This will only led you to feeling like you did something wrong, And u didn't.
2006-12-31 13:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by dntsaygoodbye44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is bad. And for some reason it sounds to me that he doesn't love you anymore. Then next time you talk to him ask him, do you love me? do you still want to be with me?
And if he really loves you then he would have never cheated on you with your friend. If he did love you then he would have thought twice about what he did. You should just suck up your feelings for him and leave him because obviously his feelings for you no longer exist. Forget about him and find someone who actually loves you and respects you.
2006-12-31 12:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your still considering what to do? Okay, first of all your best friend just did you an increible favor, she allowed u to see your boyfriend's true self. ( he's a dog) And @ the same time you realized your best friend is'nt really on your side. Don't fear it confront it. Let them both know what you know, and end both relationships,it's hard,but you the truth now.And always remember forgive them not for them. but for yourself.
2006-12-31 12:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by rodeol2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you cant choose between them, ur friend might try to use some lame excuse like he was coming on to her, but she was there with him, so dump him for cheating, and find a new friend.......however if you and the girl have been like best friends forever, you might be able to work it out but there would always be serious trust factors
2006-12-31 12:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto what rhenry501 said. You kids crack me up. The best time to confront him would be in the act. As it is he'll just deny everything and say you were mistaken. The lights were low, right?
2006-12-31 12:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋