all the time that we were together we wre so happy and close we know each other for more then 6 months but the was only for 3 weeks I think we liked each other and finally he dicided to ask me to go out with him. my feeling were strong since the begining. both of us were so happy in this relathionship and so close.
we are culturally different and he knew that, he was accepting in the bigining but he suddenly changed, I respect his decision but the way how he brok up was so wrong. he stopped to call me for4 days and after i called him and started 2 worry about him he sent a message over the phone telling me tat h's thinking about us after 2 days he called to tell me that he does not want to continue in this relathinship. but he wanted us to be friends i told him that i don t know , the next day i called him and taold him that i didnot want to give up easilly and he said no. i was devestated, I m so hurt no he left me with confusion should email him with my feelinf and what i think
2006-12-31 12:30:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont call your ex, get over him - happy new year
chin
2006-12-31 12:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not call him at all. Let go & move on. All relationships at the beginning seem so right because everything is new and both are presenting the best of themselves. Guys will sweet talk girls just to get in their panties. Lust is not love. It takes time to really see the true colors so he has revealed his. This relationship was a learning experience, next one take it slow, get to know each other (no sex). Fall in love 1st than everything else will come on its own. You have to teach others how you want to be treated. Over means over everything (no friendships with ex). Close that door and throw the key away.
2006-12-31 12:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you've already expressed your feelings to him and he's not feeling the same. If you continue to call and insist on continuing the relationship it's possible that you could lose the frienship too. Give him his space, and perhaps he'll come around, and if not it's not meant to be. Time exist for a reason... wait to see what happens.
2006-12-31 13:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a wrong way to break up. He sounds like a coward. Do you really want to be around some one who does not feel the same about you? It is best to forget this guy. Call up some girlfriends and go out.
2006-12-31 12:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ladeeda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just find a new guy and brag about him to your ex?
then your ex should (if he is that type) get jelus and ask to be your boyfriend again(or something to that effect)
and the new guy...if you dont really like him tell him to buzz off ,but if the new guy is better then your ex tell your ex that he was right to break up!!!
Well thought out plane right?
*sorry for the bad spelling*
2006-12-31 12:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 16:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dont call him since he already said no. maybe things will be better while both of u chill it out for like a month or 2.
2006-12-31 12:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always use weaker minded people, it happened to me, be head strong and forget this assholeee
2006-12-31 12:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by mike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know that you are hurt.
you shouldn't chase after him. he isnt woth it. there ill be someone else for you. trust me.
like i say when men stop being assholes ill stop being a b*tch
=) good luck. i know that you wont need it though. =)
2006-12-31 12:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Night visions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over. If you want to be friends, he gave you that option...but nothing more than friends. Sorry.
M
2006-12-31 12:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋