2006-12-31 11:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by Lovely &..... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by inviting him into your home he may have got the wrong impression. you were in a private setting at your request. if you go out to dinner or a movie you are not in a private setting, thus no sex. i would recommend in the future you wait beyond the second date to invite someone to your home, and if you do anyways make it clear that sex won't happen.
2006-12-31 12:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by dawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How many dates have you been out on in the last year? Where did you go on your first date?
I would never invite a guy to my house for dinner that I have only been out with one time before. He probably thought that you were opening up the door for him to go all of the way with you. It would have been better if you suggested that the two of you have dinner with friends.
You were probably thinking that it would be nice to invite him over so the two of you could talk without interruptions. Maybe he is not your type or he mis read your actions.
I would phone him and let him know that you are not willing to go to bed with someone that you have just meet. If he is interested in you he will slow down until the both of you feel comfortable with each other.
Don't forget these days there is allots of diseases floating around, and I wonder then someone is so anxious is there a hidden reason for the rush.
2006-12-31 14:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by D S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you did not do anything wrong, UNLESS you slept with him.
Never sleep with a man you do not know because it is dangerous in many ways. This guy's intentions may not have been social with you to begin with if he was trying to get you into bed on the second date, regardless of where the date took place.
If dinner was on the table and you were fully clothed, for a social event and you behaved in a normally friendly way and not extremely sexually suggestively, then you did nothing wrong. The "wrong" was in his intentions toward you.
2006-12-31 12:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. Most guys will want to sleep with you on the second date...but if a guy really cares about you then he will wait and will not pressure you. Also make sure you are sending the wrong message to your dates, most of the time guys will try to have sex with you that soon if they assume you are easy.
2006-12-31 11:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by dlsjbk2125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get a little too physical with him? As a general rule, it is a good idea to just restrict yourselves to light kissing and hugging. And in your conversations, perhaps you could talk a little less about sex. Dressing is important as well. You might want to avoid showing too much skin or dressing up too sexily as some guys could get the wrong impression.
However, it is not your fault if he wants to sleep with you. Some guys are just out to sleep with girls, no matter what.
2006-12-31 12:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hilarious! He wanted to sleep with you as soon as he saw you! It's a guy thing, we're born that way. It doesn't mean we're perverted or getting the wrong signal, we're just tempted to sleep with any girl we're attracted to.
Tell him you don't want to sleep with him yet, (It sounds like that's the case) and if he persists in requesting sex, then he is a jerk, and you should move on.
2006-12-31 12:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Roy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't do anything wrong. It is that he is a guy and his train of thoughts are about 20 levels below yours. don't be bashing yourself for thinking that you have done something wrong.If you still like this guy then you have to sit down with him and discuss the ground rules, tell him how and where you see this relationship going (if that is what you want) don't be letting him bully you into having sex. good luck and go girl
2006-12-31 12:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you didn't do anything wrong.
BUT - are you asking - why does he think it's okay to move so fast? He must be that type of guy. Perhaps that's what women in his past have done before. Don't put out unless you actually WANT to.
2006-12-31 11:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met the wrong guy! He only sees you as being attractive with no respect for you.
You may consider not dating him again.
2006-12-31 12:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're doing things right. Or, sending the wrong signals about where you want things with this guy to go, or he's just there for the booty.... or, this or that. What's the goal of where you want things to go with this guy?
2006-12-31 11:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋