my dad has been dating this gil and she is a huge ***** and no one in my family likes her. she always fights with my dad and hits my dad infornt of me and i always watch the fight my dad never hits her. i think its time for her to go u. well pless hepl me and only good ideas only lol
2006-12-31 11:47:48 · 10 answers · asked by joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you can't talk to your dad about this, then talk to someone else. Maybe a councelor at school, maybe someone at a teen hotline. What she is doing to your dad is against the law. It is called spousal abuse. You do not have to be married to each other to be charged with this.
What you are going through by living with this is called mental abuse.
If you don't feel you can confide in someone about this, then the next time she starts hitting him, call the police.
I'm sorry you have to go through this. Hang in there.
2006-12-31 12:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should video tape what's going on with a phone or a camcorder just walk around nonchalantly like you're playing with it or hide and tape it. Borrow one if you have to and then later when your Dad is by himself let him view the tape.This will give him some perspective from your side without you having to say anything at all.
2006-12-31 19:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by jennie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried to tell your dad about this.That you don't really like her,that she makes you unhappy and that you feel like shes not treating him and you the way you feel she should.You should try that and maybe your life will loosen up a bit and get easier u.I hope this really helps and this makes your last wish for 2006.
2006-12-31 20:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad that you don't like his girlfriend and you think he should leave her to get a better woman. Don't try to break them up by doing something stupid because you don't want your dad to not like you anymore. Just tell him how you feel.
2006-12-31 20:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad needs to know that you're losing your respect for him because of the way he lets her treat him. If that doesn't do the trick, you might just have to wait for him to come to his senses on his own.
2007-01-01 01:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to have a heart to hear with your dad. Tell him that you do not approve of her behavior. Ask him how he would feel if you dated someone that treated you that way. Tell him that you dream of him being happy and you want to be happy for him! :)
2006-12-31 19:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by ilovechocolate75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an adult it is time for him to start being your dad & stop being her punching bag next time she starts something call 911 she can't hit him it is domestic abuse.
2006-12-31 22:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put an empty condom wrapper in her car or somewhere your dad will find it. and have someone call and hang up the phone when he picks it up.
2006-12-31 19:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes an adult...He will make his own decisions...dont make him hate you...you havent been specific about what she really did..
2006-12-31 19:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant help you. but what i can say is you sholud talk to your dad it might help
2006-12-31 19:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by illpraybutwish4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋