shes been going to parties and ive been outta town and i wanna know if shes been cheating since shes been acting kind of secluded in conversation with me when i calll how can i find out helpp me please
2006-12-31 11:42:39 · 11 answers · asked by Travis S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and dont know anybody who to the parties went because ive allready tried that
2006-12-31 11:46:42 · update #1
checked myspace nuthin but i guess im asking should i ask her about it or just let it be and hope she wasnt??
2006-12-31 11:48:29 · update #2
and not theres nuthing like frequent txts or people calling and saying it was nobody but i feel like when i ask about the parties she just wants to get off the topic and being reclusive and ive asked whats wrong and she replies im tired which is a classic i dont wanna talk about it
2006-12-31 11:53:06 · update #3
If you spy and get busted, she will probably dump you, even if she was doing nothing wrong. So don't. I suggest being extra, extra, loving and caring towards her. This tends to trigger guilt (if there is any) and then she'll spill her guts. If she doesn't then I'd say you have nothing to worry about.
2006-12-31 11:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be intrusive,there is no such thing as being to personal with anyone,especially if you've been having such a close,intimate,relationship with them. Ask questions like,what kind of places are you visiting? Who are the friends you are going with? Her responses can tell you anything. What are some things that make you suspicious? Frequent text messages,etc?
If you are suspicious and they worry you more then the relationship,then the relationship isn't worth the time.
2006-12-31 11:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to some of the other people who went to those same parties.
2006-12-31 11:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is real easy just spy on her or get someone else to spy on her,but to me it sounds like she could be the cheating type.
*Happy New Year*
2006-12-31 11:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her, or you don't trust her, then your relationship is seriously troubled-- whether she actually cheated on you or not. Suspicion, cheating, lying, spying, etc, are sypmtoms of a bad affair, and not causes of one. Drop the whole relationship before it poisons you both.
2006-12-31 11:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in reality if u think ur gurl is cheatin most likely she is but b4 makin any decisions u need to sit and talk about it and if she doesnt want to then u already know wat it is!!!!
2006-12-31 11:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur that insecure and mistrusting........go find a different GF!
2006-12-31 11:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalk her, watch her every move, question her friends, check her myspace..
2006-12-31 11:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U HAVE ENOUGH FAITH IN YOUR GIRL SHES NOT CHEATING THIS WOULNT BE HAPPENING BUT YEAH
2006-12-31 11:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Janet ♥(YFFL) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect that she's cheating, then she probably is.
2006-12-31 11:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋