I have been seeing a girl for about 2 months now and When i met her she was out of a relationship with a guy Josh. We went kinda fast and dated for a while and decided that we wanted to take thing further and be a dedicated couple She later cheated on me with the same guy Josh and we made her pick him or me and she picked him. I didnt give up on us and proved to her that he is a lieing cheat . I had a friend of mine talk to him to catch him in the act. Once i did that she came back to me for a total of 2 days telling me she loves me and wants to have my baby so we tried to have a baby (she just got a IUD 2 days before) Then he comes back into her life and she tells me shes not happy with me and want him back What do i do ???? A little back round we both have 1 year old little girls and i just got out of a bad marriage.
2006-12-31 11:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a dependable, decisive woman for your sake and the sake of your baby girl. You just got out of something serious, so don't rush into something else. Your emotions are probably still pretty messed up, and she is just making it worse, she hasn't made up her mind yet, so make up yours to move on and give yourself time to figure out what you want, and what would be best for your girl. Once you figure it out, go out and look for it. Don't settle for this crap again though. It will only lead to your heart being broken again, and possibly your daughter's too.
2006-12-31 11:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe ur even asking this question, step back for a sec and see the whole picture, imagine it wasn't u, what would u tell the other person? i mean come one, this isn't brain surgery, she's just playin with ur head, she doesn't know what u want and u have a 1 yr old girl who needs ur attention, not some dumb chick who changes her mind every day. just leave her, ur baby doesn't need that kind of problems in her life...it will effect her
2006-12-31 11:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is crazy! Why the hell would you want to be with her when she's been with your friend? I'm SORRY but once a cheater always a cheater. And a baby will NOT solve your problems, thank goodness she had protection. Grow up! Thats so unfair to start a family like that. Be with someone who only wants u.
2006-12-31 11:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by cat l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in too much of a hurry to get into another relationship until you are sure of what went wrong in the last one and run from the ones like this who are in and out of your life. try dating a bit more before allowing someone to get past your defenses and become more than just someone you date.
2006-12-31 11:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kind of being a sucker, dude. She left you for him, then wants to have your baby? And you want to be with this screwed up chick? Honestly, you're wasting your time. Tell her 'Josh can have you, ya s***"
Find a girl who respects you, because this one either doesn't or is too stupid to live. I'm sorry for being harsh, but come now.
2006-12-31 11:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what does it tell you with all these reactions:
1) This is "NO" LOVE for sure
2) This is more like fooling around with your emotion
3) I suggest let Josh take over this
4) And you "MOVE ON"
2006-12-31 22:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. she chose him over u, i think thats enough but even after u proved to her he wasnt worth it she still went back to him. Shes not worht it, id say your not her type cuz she obviously enjoys losers and is one her self since she cheated on u with him.
2006-12-31 11:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words.
Take care of your kid, & forget about ladies for a few years.
2007-01-01 01:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dumb, just drop her and don't look back
2006-12-31 11:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is gone dude..............give it up. Move on!
2006-12-31 11:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋