Please be objective and let me know what you think
Met a croation girl, need adivce badly.?
I am 31 she is 28. exchanged #s off net and talked on phone for 1-2 hours nightly before meeting. after 3 nights of talking met for a quick dinner before she went to work. She was everything I look for, great person. I like her, She is not calling me now, If I text her she calls back and we talk pleasently for 30mins-1.5 hours on phone, If I mention anything about going out she kinda blows it off. I dont want to be too pushy so I dont call her just send a text saying hello and she will then call. I really like her and dont want to lose her by trying to hard...what should I do ? I am worried to ask what she thinks about us because she may feel I am pressuring. Can someone tell me what you think of this situation ?
Why does she seem happy and talk to me for lengths of time on phone ?
2006-12-31 11:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by zigzag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she likes talking on the phone more than in person, then you are in the "friend" zone. She must have not felt the same way that you do about her and just can't tell you.
2006-12-31 19:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just likes you as a friend. Maybe she just isn't attracted to you, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Or, she also could be shy. If you really want to know, you will have to ask. Say would you like to try dating. If she says yes, ask her what time would be convienent for her. If she says no, just still be friends with her. Be careful though, she could be married, and paranoid about being seen with another man.
2006-12-31 19:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i h8 too say it your in the friend zone!!!!!!!! umm mi advice is do ur own thing txt her occasionly
2006-12-31 19:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by plzbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should just say that if she ain't interested in a relationship that you'll leave her alone...
2006-12-31 19:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One word, PLAYER, she's got something else, or someone else, either a guy, or she's a workaholic. tell her how u feel.
2006-12-31 19:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋