everytime i have a relationship with a gurl, i feel insecure if she wants to perform oral on me. Im pretty average, but it might be the fact that i dont like it. Will this affect me in a relationship with a lady? LAdies??/
2006-12-31 11:00:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they want to do that to you why are you complaining about it?
If the girls did not like something she would tell you about it.
2006-12-31 11:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why u r insecure about a female performing oral sex on you, however if you are uncomfortale with this behavoir then it is your choice, and in any language with all genders no means no. If this has an effect on urrelationship with the female then maybe she is not the right one anyway. I am sure theressomeone out there for you. Good Luck.
2006-12-31 19:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by smilery2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are not making her do anything, so you shouldn't feel bad. If she genuinelly wants to do it and not just because she thinks it's what you want, but what SHE wants, then you shouldn't feel bad about it. If you just can't get over the insecurity though, mabey you should take thinks slower and not get into the intimate stuff yet.
2006-12-31 19:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of you dont like it then don't do it she wont mind just as long as you can have a little fun then who cares
2006-12-31 19:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't like it, why make her perform oral?
2006-12-31 19:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋