I am naturally messy, so whenever I am expecting company, I quickly straighten up my house. Lately this guy I like has been just dropping by a lot without calling. If I am not home, he tells me that he stopped by but I wasn't home. The past couple of times I was home, my house was a mess because I didn't have time for my straightening rituals. I really like him. He says he doesn't care about the mess. It's hard for me to believe it, because I don't even really like it when it's messy. It's all related to loneliness, because, when I live with other people, I clean out of respect for them. My messiness is frustrating to me so it's hard for me to believe he's really okay with it.
2006-12-31 10:57:45 · 13 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just learn to be more organized - if not for him, for yourself. Being neat is definitely a turn on for me, especially with women. It shows that you have your life together. He's probably OK with it, but hey, you can always improve.
2006-12-31 11:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just take 15min out of your day, every day, and clean your house? Set a "ritual" up like,
Once a week: Vacum, Dust, clean the bathroom
Twice a week: Do laundry, Take out the trash
Three times a week: Tidy up the living room and your bedroom
Every day: Make your bed (this takes two min) Do dishes, (same time), Make sure you have a clear path to your bed. lol
This sort of thing helps. And yes, I do all of these things! :D Good luck!
2006-12-31 11:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To be honest. If I see a messy house, I think two things. A. Do I want to live this way? B. A messy cluttered house may be an indication of emotional issues. It is a yellow flag to me.
2006-12-31 11:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, guys are used to messy houses, just be your self, some people are neat and some people are not dont worry about it :)
2006-12-31 11:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Boss 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He may not be okay with it. He may just be polite. So take a half hour or so every day and clean it up. Not that hard.
2006-12-31 11:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by David L 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hes a man. men are usually messy people, that is why he probably does not care. he probably thinks it is endearing that he found a chick who lives the same kind of lifestyle he does.
2006-12-31 11:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by doomonyou! 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well can you plan a little better just incase friends call on you like where to take then to chat talk where its allways clean reddy its thinking ahead that will help you to plan for this .
2006-12-31 11:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it to be a mess then continue to clean it don't change for people, keep it clean and have him call when he is coming by
2006-12-31 11:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by uimblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry my house is always a mess and my bro invites his bf over
2006-12-31 11:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by ghfr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just save yourself the trouble and just keep it clean on a daily basis :) :) :)
2006-12-31 11:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋