im dating a mean girl. I first thought it would be nice to date one but i was really wrong. The mean girl im dating punches me, makes fun of me, trys to scare me and more but she still wants me to be her boy freind. i want to break up with her but the last person who broke up with her got beaten up badlly. im to afraid to try to break up with her what should i do???
2006-12-31 10:20:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea i forgot to add this.
i think she is an smoker
2006-12-31 10:47:18 · update #1
don't continue this relationship. she is just using you. she doesn't want you to dump her because then she won't have a boyfriend to show poeple. so break up with her. if she tries to punch you just walk away or defend yourself. don't punch her back but just don't let her beat you up. your situation stinks. i feel bad for you. hope everything works out! good luck!!!
2006-12-31 10:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her and get a restraining order on her. She sounds like she needs major help, some counseling possibly.
But you should get out of it regardless. Wouldn't you rather get beaten up for breaking up with her, instead of getting abuse by her every since day that you are with her...because chances are you guys are going to break up sooner or later...so the "beating" up part is going to come regardless, better now then later at least then you don't have to endure any of her B S anymore.
2006-12-31 10:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, where did you find this girl? Get the hell out of the relationship now! If she gets violent, defend yourself. It's not right that a guy can get jail time for slapping a girl but a girl can beat the s**t out of a guy and it's alright. Here's a suggestion, take her somewhere public to break up, like a restaurant or something (NO ALCOHOL) so that she cannot act out. Good luck!
2006-12-31 10:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't wantto live a terrible life just because of her. Do you want a girlfriend that doesn't respect you and most of all, puunches you? JUST GET A BREAK UP! If she starts punching you, then you can call the police. After all, you have the right todo so, so just take it before it's too late.....
2006-12-31 10:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're serious, don't see her again. Go and stay with a friend for a few days so that she can't come to your house. Then phone her or write to her and say that you've decided to end the relationship. There is no need to mention the beatings or to impress on her the reasons that you think she is not the right girl for you.
2006-12-31 10:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need find an area where an adult (that can help you if she beats you up) is so they can help you. For example you could tell her (break up with her) in front of a police station so if she does beat you up they can arrest her. Or, be in a room with one of your parents. Tell her in the living room. If she doesn't beat you up there, though, she might beat you up at school. Hang out with a big group during school so they can help you. Good luck!
2006-12-31 10:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by pup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she beat him up or did someone else? Just break up with her, she's not worth your time. If you don't want to break up with her, make her break up with you, be creative. Be rude in public, slightly embarrass her, hint at some insults to her. Don't be the person she wanted to go out with. Be so bad that she'll think she's moving up in the world to get rid of you. Get your friends in on it to stage something.
2006-12-31 10:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Krista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? That is crazy and you should have some friends and family that will take up for you. No one can protect you all the time but I think she'd re-consider having you beat up if she knew you had some people that had your back!
2006-12-31 10:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her and if you can don't answer your phone thereafter or let her where you are or what you are doing if possible. Let your friends know the situation too. You can stay with her out of fear of something happening to you.
2006-12-31 10:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by kws504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u a n idiot break up with her and u are a guy so act like one and dont get beaten up by a girl. hit her back
2006-12-31 10:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by no longer caligirl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋