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trusting someone whom you cant trust, how much privacy is someone entitled to in a relationship? i am a relationship with some who lies cheats and is selfish. i have a one year old son with him which make it hard to leave.i feel like taking him run or killing the both of us to escape,i know this is wrong.i am just 21,i know there are woman out there who had children at a much younger age but i am feeling like i am losing myself

2006-12-31 10:18:28 · 4 answers · asked by Grace R 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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Slow down sister! Lets take a deep breath and do our best to see the situation from a different perspective. This could be your chance to change your life in a positive direction. First of all nothing is ever bad enough to take another life. Secondly the problems we have today are just that and temporary if we take the right steps to correct the situation we can be done with it. Do you have family you can go live with that would be your first bet. Don't be rash. You have a great responsibility as a mother to do what is best for your child. I know you must be in a lot of pain I cant imagine how you must feel. If you don't have a family to live with call your local church. If you don't know what church to contact just pick one out of the phone book. I am so sorry your heart is hurting, Tonight you will be in my prayers.
Kourtnie D

2006-12-31 10:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kourtnie D 4 · 0 0

get him into a counselling. If he refuses, just leave him for the time being. Go to your family's house and stay there with your son. This is one of the times when you need your family most. It's hard to face it alone.

2006-12-31 11:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by bogey 4 · 0 0

Do not kill yourself or your son.. you just need to get out of the relationship.. i know that you are worried about your son.. but he will understand when he gets older. there are plenty of opportunities out there for you, we are lucky we have the option to do many things with are lives. you deserve better than this. You will regret it if you stay any longer and no matter how bad it hurts it will get better. trust me..

2006-12-31 10:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 0 0

Seek counseling nothing in this world is worth taking yours or your child's life and is he a abusive person if so get the hell out of that relationship!

2006-12-31 11:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by maddcc 2 · 0 0

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