I am a brunette with very pale skin -- and (unfortunately) lots of hair down there. I get a brazilian but my hair grows so fast that it starts to come back a little within a week. It makes me feel that I can only be intimate with a man within a 'one-week-window'. UGH... should I just not care about being completely 'clean' down there or what can I do? I love how I feel when I'm first waxed but then I just start to feel like this gross person... What can i do? thanks!
2006-12-31 10:08:29 · 21 answers · asked by lola 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Honestly, this is a generation thing. I'm probably a little bit older than you. I really don't like being totally bare. People in their teens and twenties seem to be obsessed with this trend. I always have a "runway" patch. I haven't met a guy who minded. I know some woment who don't do anything!!!
Do what makes you feel comfortable. You could also try a depilatory cream but you have to let the hair grow out before you can use it again just like waxing.
Don't worry about the guys. Do what you want. If a guy rejects you for it...he is not worth it!
2006-12-31 10:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by lolabellaquin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Read up on why there is pubic hair in humans. You will find that it serves a medical purpose of aerating the area, trapping harmful bacteria from entering your vagina and absorbs sweat which otherwise would remain on your skin and create problems.
The extent of hair growth depends on several factors, one of which is genetic. There is nothing much you can do to reduce the extent of your pubic hair growth by natural methods.
If you want to shave the area because you have been told that it is the 'done' thing, or that it looks gross, or that it smells, dont believe these totally. What matters is how comfortable you are with your growth. If you are ashamed of its thickness because your b/f doesnt like it that way, politely tell him that you have genuine problems in keeping the area free of hair. If he is an understanding one, he wouldnt object. You can try to trim it at reasonable intervals so that it looks less dense.
Whatever you may choose to do, always keep the area very clean. Dont use anything except plain water and ordinary soap, and clean the area twice a day. Those who say that a bald area there is cleaner are wrong. If such people dont keep the area clean daily, it would smell as badly as of those who retain their growth.
2007-01-02 09:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just shave everyday you'll be fine. I assume you take a shower each day, so just add that to the list of things you'd normally do. Just be sure to invest in a good shaver and a good shave cream. Also, the fact that you keep getting brazillians makes it seem like there's more than there is. You should go for the porn star look, a cute little strip. Not as much maintenance either. You could also look into a cream that makes hair grow back slower...forget the name of them though.
2006-12-31 18:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my gf shaves every now and then, when she does it is great and smooth for a few days then the stubble can be painful when we make love, it scratches my manhood. After the ruff few days all is well and she lets it grow until she gets board with it again.
I love this it is like being with a different women every few days as the surface goes for bald smooth to bush but not jungle.
2007-01-01 08:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is talking about either shaving or keeping it natural. I say look into LASER HAIR REMOVAL. I have a few friends who have done it and I have heard no complaints. I've recently done laser hair removal on my arms & I am SO happy with the results. Definitely look into it.
2006-12-31 20:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by kvshy2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it grows back that fast, why not just shave along your bikini line and keep it neatly trimmed? Most guys don't really care (and if they do they're certainly not worth the trouble) as long as you keep it clean.
2006-12-31 18:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by spunk113 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God put hair there for a reason. Just let it grow and keep it trimmed. Shaving legs is bad enough! LOL
2006-12-31 19:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel you on this girl...I shave and to keep it pretty I use Tend Skin. Its a great product that keeps ingrown hairs and razor burn away. Try it.
2006-12-31 19:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go naturally or when u get old, u will not have any hair down there,
2006-12-31 21:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i shave about every 4-5 days...bc my hair grows back quick too...and well i havent looked into the laser hair removal..but you might want to look into that...
but if all else fails...shave... :)
2006-12-31 20:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by adriana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋