Do you think this would make a difference in your relationship?
2006-12-31 09:59:05 · 31 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, not freaked out..
Perhaps a bit concerned but it would make
no difference in the relationship...
I would remember to keep an eye on her weight
if we were to marry...
2006-12-31 10:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate these general relationship questions. Each situation is different. Each person is different. Each relationship is different. Every answer you get on here is probably not going to be how your b/f reacts. It depends on how you are in your relationship. No one can tell you that... unless they know you pretty well they can guess.
Now, a girl I date I probably wouldn't care. It might be facinating because I generally date skinny girls. And to think of one of the girls I dated to be 80 LBS over weight is hard to picture.
2006-12-31 18:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Curious George 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all!
The actual # of pounds anyone is over or under weight is irelevent.
some people look better with a few extra pounds, on some women 80 pounds over weight looks better than 10 lbs over weight on others.
2006-12-31 18:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Insane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should congratulate her on her success. Maybe she realized that she was not happy with herself and instead of others out there, she did something about it and became healthier in the process. As far as making a difference in the relationship...truly how do you feel about her? If that changes your opinion of her, then shame on you.
2006-12-31 18:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by indygurl3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. but I would be concerned that if the relationship went anywhere..further on down the road would she struggle with her weight again and let herself go. Like when she got older and had kids..etc..
2006-12-31 18:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, at first I would be surprised, but if their attracted to you now, it shouldn't make a difference. If you want this to be longterm you can't be hiding pictures of yourself for the rest of your life. Eventually he's going to find out. Just sit him down and tell him your nervous.
2006-12-31 18:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Krista 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess if the guy knew you before and sees you now he would be impressed with your will power and determination. If she is detemined to keep the weight off then it is even better. BUt really has she changed her kindness, her heart, her caring? Probably not and you have judged her from the outside guys.
2006-12-31 18:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would it make a difference? I think it should give you a whole new respect for her because she lost the weight it shows she has wheel power and that goes a long way.
2006-12-31 18:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on how superficial the boyfriend is. You can tell if he'd be freaked out or not based on his comments and demeanor in general. But for me, no I wouldn't.
2006-12-31 18:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it would not freak me out, and no it should not make a difference in your relationship. why would it that makes no sense.
2006-12-31 18:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋