I had my boyfriends password to his email, and I have caught him several times sending emails to random girls about hooking up and having sex with them. what should I do?
2006-12-31 09:59:00 · 37 answers · asked by itsme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should get rid of him. Right now this instant!!!!
2006-12-31 10:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by bartman40467 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, girl, you got a lot to learn in your life. If the first time you saw his e-mails, you should of slapped him and hicked him hard. You should of also had a talk with him about it and tell him that this was his warning, if you found out again, then you would dump him. If he ends up changing his password, then just find out what his new password is because if you know his old one and you knew how to get hold of it, then you should be able to get hold of his new one.
If you found him still sending e-mails to other women, then this time(try not to be mean) you might punish him by taking 100 dollars from him and tell him that it's over.
Next time, get a new boyfriend and ifyou still have the keys to his house, then you can bring your new boyfriend and get into his house when he's not at home(by the ways, you should wear a see through silk gown so you can take it off easily so you can start having naked sex with your partner right when you get inside). When you get inside take off your gown and let your boyfriend take off your underwear, then take off everything else on your new boyfriend slowly andin a sexy way. Then possibly go in the shower or on top of a table and start having sex,naughty sex. Like licking each other, rubbing your body on his, and doing anything that you can think of. When your old boyfriend comes home, he'll see you andhow good at sex you are so he'll want you back but you'll just leave and later he will most likely feel bad that he couldn't of just hold on to you.
2006-12-31 10:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 09:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that your so called boyfriend has a problem with sex. He is addicted to sex so that's why he does what he does.
How did you get his password to his email box?
I would talk to him about the problem he has. If you are considering marrying him, it could be a problem for the both of you. If he denies it, show him the emails or print them out for him to see. If he gets upset, then you will also know what kind of person he really is.
I would also leave him, until he gets help or is willing to seek help. You by the way, just need to move on with your life, but do be cautious on who you select as a mate.
2006-12-31 10:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an E-Mail about what you felt when you first met him and you two started dating and then where it has ended up just before you decided to leave him and find the guy that will love you for who you are.....
Then tell him that the last thing you are doing is hitting the DELETE button on his butt!
2006-12-31 10:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by gromeo747 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 - Dump him before you get an STD. He's a loser.
#2 - Don't snoop. This makes you look psycho.
If you have a reason to believe that someone isn't being honest, don't snoop around through their things. That makes you just as dishonest and untrustworthy. Confront them, give them a chance to explain. If you're happy with their answer / behavior, trust them until they give you a reason not to. If you're not happy with their behavior, dump 'em!
2006-12-31 10:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyedann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really need to ask this question? it's right in front of you. well, i guess it depends if he did do something with the girls he's been emailing. If he did, you should know not to fall for a creep like that. dump him. he's being gay. haha have a great new years
2006-12-31 10:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. you deserve better than that. why would you stay with someone like that? obviously he has no respect for you, and has a commitment issue. He is trying to keep his options open if things do not work out between you all. More than likely hes already cheated on you.
2006-12-31 10:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop him in a heartbeat. No if's ands or buts. If he's going to be looking outside the relationship, then he's not comitted, and may bring something bad home to YOU. Not only that, but you'll never be able to fully trust him in the future.
2006-12-31 10:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even confront him about it. You had no right to his email.
What I would do is tell him that he's not the right guy for you and end the relationship. When he asks why, just tell him that you're not in love. End the relationship. Choose your next guy carefully, not with paranoia, just with care. A lot of us guys don't think cheating is ok; find one of us.
2006-12-31 10:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the hell out of him, smash his computer over his head then dump him! After that go tell all his friends that he got beat up by a girl!
2006-12-31 10:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋