2006-12-31 09:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by stevencaman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should have been single
2006-12-31 10:00:43 · update #1
my mom is a sinlge mom.
and i have this thing with chasing them away. only if they arent right. one guy survived but later left her. so depending on how old the kids are...then my answer would be the kids.
but another possiblility. is showing that you arent scared to get involved in a relationship were their are kids.
showing compassion for the fact that she might have to leave a date early for her kid.
or
dealing with the fact that she is going to talk about them a lot because they are her life.
2006-12-31 09:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto - Its' going to be learning to share time with the kids, and they usually come first. If he still has part time custody, its always having the jerk show up, but then also, there is the benefit of him having the kids on some weekends when you can have some time alone.
Welcome to the 21st Century - Denver, where I date and have fun is 65% single, with lots of single Mom's. Soon, you just have to resolve that statistically that is where you are going to be dating - women with kids.
2006-12-31 18:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by syquest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the children are the hardest issue. it takes time and patience and you gotta be a good person to the kids... the kids will make it or break it up for yall
2006-12-31 17:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kids. they will more then likely dictate your time with her. I think if you don't have kids yourself take your time with her if things don't work in the end the kids get hurt too.
2006-12-31 17:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by smurf_punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being able to accept that you aren't the centre of her attentions... :D The child(ren) come(s) first... And you a distant second.... ;)
Show how much of a man you can be by accepting that...
2006-12-31 17:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learning to get used to the fact that she has a kid/kids. being ok with the fact that they will always come first.
2006-12-31 18:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Decadent One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kids, and the problems with the ex,
2006-12-31 17:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything. Especially when you have no help.
2006-12-31 17:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋