me and the girl i was dateing broke up b/c i said i loved her and i do. she asked me if i loved her a few days ago with one of those dumb net pics i said i loved her she said the same by filling out the numbers on the dumb pic we where talking on the mic and she asked me to say i love her i told her i dint want to b/c i asked her out online and i would rather tell her in words when i saw her next so then i start telling her i love her and she will be quiet and ill have to change the subject the weird thing is after we filled out that survay she started crying then i started to cry.
i broke up with her once before this because i dint want to put her trew brakeing up with me when it seemed like we wernt geting along. but i called her and got back together after i was sure she liked me and wasnt trying to brake up with me she cryed and ran up the stairs and fell. i called her and cleared things up and we got back together she is confuseing me so much now she says she wants to be friends.
2006-12-31 09:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by kingjoey66 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she also says that we should have goten to know each other better before we went out she is confuseing me now she is grouned and sneaking online to talk to me
2006-12-31 09:47:37 · update #1
Find a girl who isn't so emotional...how old are you? ;-)
Kinda sounds like she's afraid of commitment.
2006-12-31 09:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is stay away I know it's hard and hurts but when the night comes is when you really miss her. You need your space and move on. I stayed in a 6 1/2 year relationship even though I thought I loved him but I moved back home to California. And he is in Washington. There were other reasons also that broke the camels back like he played D&D, he was lazy and needed to be told when to mow the lawn. He was a big kid in a mans body. Hope this answered your question. Good luck!
2006-12-31 17:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring her is your best option right now,.....
Turn your heart to cold stone when it comes to matters about her, its hard to do, but its really the only way it works, i went through a similar situation, we broke up and still saw each other during class and the whole time i missed her, so in the end i decided to ignore her and went about my business, eventually she'll get the point
P.S. DO NOT LET HER PLAY THE FRIEND CARD,
2006-12-31 17:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by bobbr241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is just move on. Explore your options, you sound like a sweet heart and you deserve someone who will treat you the same as you treat them. it will be hard but keep busy, hang out with friends, and move on. You could stay friends with her but that would be hard on you. Good Luck.
2006-12-31 17:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like riding a bike. You fall off you get up and do it again. Getting dumped is the same thing. Girl kicks you to the curb; get another girl.
2006-12-31 17:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what u do . find somebody else ,just dont make the same mistake.start off as friends so u can get 2 know her . then u start dating if she wants 2 . dont push or rush things .TAKE YOUR TIME AND BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Good Luck!!!!!
2006-12-31 17:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by rakia p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god you are pathetic, I will be sad to call myself a "man" after reading your crap. Man, if you really want to "stop" missing her, start plowing any girl that you see. I mean fat chicks, over-the-hill woman (30+yrs), ugly chicks, nerdy chicks, black chicks. It is the quantity not quality. After nailing your fifty slutty, then you will start feeling much much better. This is how real men get over girls. So start porking.
2006-12-31 17:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like you too are making things too complicated. If you like each other just be with each other and enjoy your time together.
2006-12-31 17:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by T D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get over her, move on. sorry you had to go through that
2006-12-31 17:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by amira j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋